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Is it just me or are American girls typically not that interested in Asian men

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14 years 7 months ago #28189 by JimmyNYC
d.v. wrote:

i think it's typical of any race to not be interested in another. a lot of what we are interested in is based on what we grow up with. your exposure to life as you grow up will usually dictate your taste in the opposite sex.

if you're white and you've been around mostly asians all your life then you'll more than likely be attracted to asians. if you've barely been around or seen asians, then you'll more than likely not be attracted to them. i'll exclude the universal "pretty" ones in each race as those will be liked by the general.


I'm going to disagree...I've been around Asians most of my life. I am rarely attracted to Asians, unless they're Filipinas, and they're not really oriental in my eyes.

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14 years 7 months ago #28193 by JonRobK
american girls are attracted to american guys, if your born here your american... im american but ethnic wise i am asian...

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14 years 7 months ago #28202 by sean
You are right in saying "typical." Of course, there are exceptions to everything, but compared to Europe and Canada the quick answer is yes..typically. Good question, though. I will want to read the other responses..

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14 years 7 months ago #28205 by moonflower
I dont know about american ladies but i sure melt when i see an asian guy near me..but in my country they are so darn rare:( who would like to come here anyway lmao.
I think it's only because of some old theories..that u boys are good in fights but clumsy with love xD

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14 years 7 months ago #28214 by Rrabbit
Just because a specific girl is not interested in you (1 Asian guy) doesn't mean she isn't interested in Asians in general. I'm sure you're not attracted to every American girl you see, cut us some slack it's more about preference within a preference than race.

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14 years 7 months ago #28218 by Adee
I haven't met many American girls, but I come across a lot of Asian American men saying this about them on internet forums. I'm not that interested in American girls anyway.

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14 years 7 months ago - 14 years 7 months ago #28219 by PondHopper
Maybe stuck up American girls don't like Asians but puhleeze, they are the minority.
I think it's sometimes hard for caucasian girls to approach asian guys as they tend to be a bit grouped together, and most of the time have asian girls with them already. This could be just my experience though.
If they'd just spread out a bit, approach a girl or give the girl a chance to approach them. (<--this applies to the club scene, or any group type of thing)
Out and about on the street I can just think to approach a girl. Sure, she could be one of the rare twatty ones, but obviously she wasn't worth your time.
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14 years 7 months ago #28221 by beisi
It depends on the girl. Don't judge all American girls alike. ;)

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14 years 7 months ago #28227 by MagicMarker
PondHopper wrote:

Maybe stuck up American girls don't like Asians but puhleeze, they are the minority.
I think it's sometimes hard for caucasian girls to approach asian guys as they tend to be a bit grouped together, and most of the time have asian girls with them already. This could be just my experience though.
If they'd just spread out a bit, approach a girl or give the girl a chance to approach them. (<--this applies to the club scene, or any group type of thing)
Out and about on the street I can just think to approach a girl. Sure, she could be one of the rare twatty ones, but obviously she wasn't worth your time.


I think most of the ones that have approached in the past have been so traumatized that they'll never do so again! :(

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14 years 7 months ago #28331 by faiz
It's so hard to respond to this topic without sounding all.....asian-american activist-y.

Unless someone wants to hear another Asian guy ranting?

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