Darker girls disadvantaged on amwf social networks?

rorobear wrote:

I'm not attracted to Neptunians. If I don't correspond with Neptunians, does that make me racist? No. If I skip over your profile because you're Neptunian, does that make me hate Neptunians? Does that make me anti-Neptunian? Nope It just means that I am visually attracted to persons other than Neptunians. There done and said.

Don't spend your time on what you think other people think about you. Assumption screws perception. Find something else better to do with your time <3 !

Well said.

In this life, if you expect someone/something to create a level playing field for you, your own naivete will eventually make a mockery of you. Grow thicker skin because not everyone is going to love you. Hey AI! is a tool to bring people together who may want to connect. Not everyone wants to connect with everyone else who crosses their path. You didn't know?

C'est la vie.

This forum is to state your opinion, not to discourage people and tell them they're stupid.
Don't forget, I'm 14. Yeah, I might be naive, but I don't need other people telling me, since I'm fully aware already. I think my mental knowledge is pretty high for my age anyhow, so please don't bring me down.
And clearly, you didn't read my comment above.
thanks.

I think it might be more to do with your age though, I just think. I'm young, yet white, I don't really get so many returns on posts and messages, guys NOR girls.
Don't worry, you'll definitely make some new friends on here sooner or later It always takes some time

MsArekuse:
You are pretty cute I do like to be your friend.

I just had few thoughts, after 50% of reading this toping, smirking and being tired:
1. Would I contact, accept as a friend, answer a european/white guys, latinos whatever, when some would be here? No -> I'm a racist of my own race? No? = It's just a preference..

2. Would I care about 'black men loves asian women', 'egyptan men loves australian women', 'napolitan men loves chilenian women', like the presite from hey-ai called 'asian men loves white girls' (or something like that, I'm bad in remembering) -> No? Seriously, who take care about it.

3. Do anybody really believe that 'real love' is just to love the character? Seriously, I think it do care how the partner look like, if it wouldn't be your preference or the liking, you can't love somebody (I do prefer asians, but if I like the look of a white guy, I can love him, if I wouldn't like it, I would never love him..)

So, good night!

lol thank you ginseng..

being of color myself (obviously) it's different to be on a site like this b/c you trully dont see many members who are of color. So far i think its however the person was raised. I was, and still am actually, to only date black guys..never go beyond that because they will understand you better and your struggle in society.
Well i disagree.
Not everyone struggles because of their race, but i still think someone who isn't black could understand that. Their are so many different minorities and its more about understanding & breaking out of what society expects out of us. if the person i am with makes me happy thats all that matters Period.

Karyuu wrote:

People are welcome to continue discussing that, but I suggest we change the title to:

"Darker girls disadvantaged on amwf social networks?"

or something the like.
Especially now that the original poster has deleted her account ...

"Racism against black girls on hey-ai" sounds like people were posting racial slurs on the hey-ai forum and we admins wouldn't do anything against it, which most certainly is not the case. ^^

And honestly I don't want people to find this through google, think "oh this site is full of racists" and leave without a second glance ... @_@

Agreed. It's also kind of annoying in my opinion, that like every other day a new topic related to this one keeps showing up. People, there ARE Asian guys who like black chicks on this site, you just have to look, like you would in the real world. Stop re-creating these topics, there are like 5 of them now (Estimating). People reacted the same way...... Asians like who they like, just as you like who you like. Try thinking outside of the box, I bet most of you limit your "asian-ness" to Koreans and Japanese, what about the Chinese? Malaysians? Laotians? HMMM?