Darker girls disadvantaged on amwf social networks?

i'm actually more likely to check on a female's profile if she were black

idyll wrote:

I recently got told I was less hot because of my age...so that's ageism, no? Whatever, like someone said, just use that as a filter and don't let it get to you so much.

That's just stupid you don't even look your age. You look younger

Hmm... ahh so much hate on blondes, makin' me wanna go brunette ^^; (even though I've wanted to for a while now so it's probably a good thing!!)
i dunno man, people don't always respond to my messages and wall posts either... i think it's what some people have been saying,
it's not racism, it's personal preferences
or maybe they just forgot to reply, or didn't know what to say..
haha idk >, <

Jossie wrote:

Some of the guys comment on blonde american girls telling them that they're happy they have found an original american. that sorta made me upset...

i really think that some of the guys here are extremely bias. booo. im sorry im not blonde nor light skinned. but i live in AMERICA. i am an AMERICAN.

Sadly, I've noticed this too. They say they want American girls but what they really mean is pale white, thin, assets on display etc. It can be really discouraging, especially when they can't contain themselves proclaim it on the forums instead of on someone's wall or in PM.

To the OP, I think your age might have something to do with it, sadly. Just wait a few years and you'll see. Lots of guys here prefer black women over white women.

JessicaLouise wrote:

Jossie wrote:

Some of the guys comment on blonde american girls telling them that they're happy they have found an original american. that sorta made me upset...

i really think that some of the guys here are extremely bias. booo. im sorry im not blonde nor light skinned. but i live in AMERICA. i am an AMERICAN.

Sadly, I've noticed this too. They say they want American girls but what they really mean is pale white, thin, assets on display etc. It can be really discouraging, especially when they can't contain themselves proclaim it on the forums instead of on someone's wall or in PM.

To the OP, I think your age might have something to do with it, sadly. Just wait a few years and you'll see. Lots of guys here prefer black women over white women.

I reckon the guys who say that are Asia guys from Asia, because they think Americans equals white blondes. I think a western born Asian would know better than to say such a thing. What upset me here is not discrimination but the inferiority complex some guys have, which I guess kinda ties in with MichiePook's point. Quite sad

Its sad to say but there will always be some sort of discrimination; be it related to skin color, to somebody's weight or to stereotype.

For exemple, some guys will think that i am either an easy girl or that i am dumb simply because i have blond hair ... You dont want to know some of the stuff that was sent to me on other sites ...

As for this site, its actually not so bad but some poeple will clearly judge you by the way you look since the first thing you see is a profile picture and if some of them decide to ignore you because they dislike your skin color ... screw them
youll get to know someone much better eventually!!!

All that to say that we all come in different shapes, colors and sizes just like we all have strenghts and weaknesses so thats why mutual respect is important

[hope i dont sound too weird lol]

But everyone here has their preferences, including the OP, I'm sure.

It's obvious that many girls here also have specific traits on their bucket lists including highly-preferred Asian ethnicities, skintone & eye shapes.. A girl who watches Korean soaps all day and wants a pale Korean with "chinky" eyes is not going to be interested in a darker Vietnamese with "rounder" eyes.

But hey, it's a free country! And if people didn't have any preferences, they'd just be f****** everyone! I mean, what is a "relationship" but 2 people with an extreme preference for each other?

i heard there's an open bar here, where the beers?

Well, Asian parents are very racist Sad but true. So family wishes probably have a lot to do with it also.

I live in an area with lots of Asians, Mexican and Blacks. I have never seen an Asian male + Black female with my own eyes. Its already rare for an Asian male + white female, just think about how rare it would be for AM+BF...

So you can't be hating on people for not responding. You still have a lot of growing up to do. No one else wanted to say it, but I will 14 is way too young in trying to do the internet dating thing

i got hit by a car but i STILL managed to hold the phone!