"It's just a stupid fetish". Your thoughts?

Phinn wrote:

I'd think it was rude, ignorant and rather sad that someone who is in a relationship with an Asian man would believe that Asian men are not appealing enough in there own right to attract females of other ethnicities.

sorry, I guess I should log off after midnight, I tend to blurt things out when Im sleepy.

I just thought this type of observation is something that we'd all face from outsiders when we're in a atypical relationships.



sorry, no offense ok? maybe I took once sentence from our conversation out of context here. because Phinn, if anything I think you might be reading the exact opposite of what we were talking about.

never mind, I won't make this mistake again...

I don't think she was referring to you, Mr. Peter.

peter4zen wrote:

Phinn wrote:

I'd think it was rude, ignorant and rather sad that someone who is in a relationship with an Asian man would believe that Asian men are not appealing enough in there own right to attract females of other ethnicities.

sorry, I guess I should log off after midnight, I tend to blurt things out when Im sleepy.

I just thought this type of observation is something that we'd all face from outsiders when we're in a atypical relationships.



sorry, no offense ok? maybe I took once sentence from our conversation out of context here. because Phinn, if anything I think you might be reading the exact opposite of what we were talking about.

never mind, I won't make this mistake again...

No offence taken! I'm just relieved you are with someone who appreciates you!
Asian men are attractive no fetish required!

What's wrong with having a fetish, anyway?
And if she thinks this one is stupid, she should check what some reaaaaally weird people find attractive.

i don't think it's stupid, or any fetish for that matter, but to side a little bit with the girlfriend; i have to say that it is a fetish. we all have them in one shape or another. it's what makes us unique to who we are.

we like what we see and go for it, period.

I dont think it's a fetish.
Because we all are attracted to certain features in a mate, some are attracted to blonds, some blue eyes, some dark hair, some want tall, some want smart, some want big nose, some want certain shape ears, some want no hair, some want hair!
So to say it's a fetish is rediculous!

I personally am just attracted to black hair, brown eyes,certain shapes, thats all it is.
Everyone has a preference even animals have a preference and stars too all the way down to atoms and cells even have a mating preference.

Also color and shapes is not really what makes people, it's who they are on the inside that completes who they reallly are.

Dolores wrote:

What's wrong with having a fetish, anyway?
And if she thinks this one is stupid, she should check what some reaaaaally weird people find attractive.

There are harmless fetishes but when someone becomes infatuated for the wrong reasons it can end in disaster. imagine being with someone for an extended amount of time then finding out they were interested in your skin or hair and didn't know the first thing about you? Fetishes like that encourage people to lump others into groups without assessing indevidual personalities. If a person is only dating you to satisfy some fantasy they won't hesitate to leave your ass as soon as it's over.
The thing about sites like this is you tend to encounter a mix of freaky people and those legitimately interested in the cause. Of course there are people who are here because they have an Asian/non Asian fetish (they won't admit it)

Ehm... Guys, can you tell me what's an fetish is in your language?
I can't understand that, in which case that is a fetish here.. o.o...
For me: Fetish = loving subjects in a sepcial way..

Maikea wrote:

Ehm... Guys, can you tell me what's an fetish is in your language?
I can't understand that, in which case that is a fetish here.. o.o...
For me: Fetish = loving subjects in a sepcial way..

The dictionary definition of a fetish...

Fetish
noun
1 a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.
An excessive and irrational devotion or commitment to a particular thing.
2 an inanimate object worshipped for its supposed magical powers or because it is considered to be inhabited by a spirit.