Is it just me or are American girls typically not that interested in Asian men

Jakey wrote:

sexysuperfun wrote:

honestly from a guy's point of view.

we do like to look and appreciate a fine piece of art
but we have serious lack of confident, we seriously dont know if the girls want to talk or not, cuz i know this one girl she told me that she will never ever date a asian guy... (killed me inside)

I don't just like to "appreciate a fine piece of art" but I buy it quickly and take it home with me and hang it on my bedroom wall! Just kidding!

All jokes aside, please don't use the word "we". Some guys have issues with this and other don't - regardless of race.

I've dated many white girls who've told me, "You're the first Asian guy I've ever been with."

Just remember people's preferences do change, and there are always countless exceptions.

You guys are objectifying women as fine pieces of art? LOL

Jakey - I'm sure you have a fine "art collection" there...of sextapes? lol

American girls typically not that interested in Asian men

In my opinion, most American girls are typically not that interested in Asian men. I had dated only one American girl in my lifetime, a goth like girl who she thinks my Asian value is not compatible with hers. Meanwhile, it is hard to get American girls to talk to you when they are surrounded by white guys. Well, there is still hope, that you might find one out of 100 girls that is just willing to talk more than 4 sentences with you before she drag a white man out and walk out with him. In my class, there is no American girl. lol. I know that sucks...

I like asian guys!!!!!!!!

Erikaulitz wrote: I like asian guys!!!!!!!!

I love Asian guys!!!!!!!

hmm they are, i think they are
cause i'm one ^^

calm down Joseph...just follow your plan and come to Canada ! ha

I usually have this debate with my white friends about this actually haha, "Dude, girls out here just aren't into me cause I'm Asian!!". Although I've held serious relationships and casually dated a couple of non Asian girls here in NYC.

Whenever my friends and I go out it's usually them who the girls are interested in, not me. One time this one girl who was actually interested in me that I was talking to at a bar had to stop because her friend was telling her not to talk to me cause I'm Asian and making racist remarks and stuff.

So I feel your pain buddy, even the Asian girls out here aren't interested in me haha.

Being an asian dude WE certainly have it harder. Ie. getting recruited into top schools, banks, and worst of all dating non asian chicks. Dont even get me started with marrying non asian women. I've only seen a very small and I emphasize the word small fraction of asian dudes marrying non asian chicks. So just be persistent and hope we luck out. Cause we need it.

Kinda depends on WHAT type of girl y'all keeping aiming at.
If the girls you keep aiming at keep turning you down, its time to rethink the game plan.
I know Asian guys who score pretty easy because their not closed minded about the type of girl they like.(not calling anyone close minded...keep em on )

Like for example one of my male Asian guyfriends kept on aiming at one type of girl. I wont describe it but it kinda is the basic thinking pattern a lot of Asian guys born in Asia have (from my experience). He flat out told me(even though I had NO intention of asking him out) I was FAR from his type. Anywhoot.. his "preference" in girls didn't get him far so he is back to strictly dating Asian girls...

All and all I'm saying being too picky doesn't get you too far in a world where women have just as much choice as men. Heck even more choices then men.

Who said life was fair,

14 years there was a interesting sociological study on how the interacial dating patterns of Asian Female with White Male couples predominant to Asian Male with White Females (by the way the most attractive (in my opinion)). There are also other patterns with other different types of nationalities. If we look into the african american males with white females they are too predominantly larger than african american females with white males.
now the studies says why is this pattern common? genetics... everyone of us has genes, and in our genes are what composes us. Asian females are perceived as more feminine than white females and even greater than African american females. So this study suggest that men will more likely go for women that are "girl-iest". and for Asian guys compared to white men and even greater to african american, they are considered less masculine. the average height of an american white anglo mail is considered to be 5' 11", asian male averages below. and the height of african americans are even higher than that of 5' 11". the media portrays african american playing football and basketball, while the asians are finding cures for cancer. haha.

The solution! CHANGE SOCIETIES PERSPECTIVE!

I forgot where I learned all this knowledge but if you look hard enough or message me that your interested in learning more I can send you the link of the exact article. It has figures and more interesting things to look.

but I found this interesting to be an article written 14 years ago!! My fellow asian americans (and others across the world), this is an obstacle to which WE WILL find a way around.