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Is it just me or are American girls typically not that interested in Asian men

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14 years 2 months ago #49806 by IX.Joshua
Would you agree with me that even if a guy with confidence, funny, had things going for him, would be pretty attractive? Even if he's a 6 out of 10?

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14 years 2 months ago #49814 by meg-n
I think it's texas I have weird taste in guys accoding to my other friends but I could be wrong . Anyway good luck! I'm sure you find someone texas is a big state tons of girls in it

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14 years 2 months ago #49815 by mikesnuggets23
Would you agree with me that even if a guy with confidence, funny, had things going for him, would be pretty attractive? Even if he's a 6 out of 10?

On the other side of the fence, if I met a girl like that, well great but the first thing everyone looks at is physical attraction. Yes its a balance eventually but its always about physical attraction first

And for the topic as a whole? Yeah i'd say the answer is yes thats true, the ideal guy is different from what the asian culture perceives as the ideal guy, at least in my opinion

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14 years 2 months ago #49818 by IX.Joshua
Would you agree with me that even if a guy with confidence, funny, had things going for him, would be pretty attractive? Even if he's a 6 out of 10?

On the other side of the fence, if I met a girl like that, well great but the first thing everyone looks at is physical attraction. Yes its a balance eventually but its always about physical attraction first

And for the topic as a whole? Yeah i'd say the answer is yes thats true, the ideal guy is different from what the asian culture perceives as the ideal guy, at least in my opinion


Yeah and if you look at the figures, I just feel that it'll take a couple more generations for asian americans to really be "diversified" among america.

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14 years 2 months ago #49819 by mikesnuggets23
Absolutely true, though we at least know there are a lot of people out there comfortable with and welcoming this diversification. Let's hope it happens sooner than later ~

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14 years 2 months ago #49822 by parenthetically
yes, statistics against us do exist.
yes, there is negative media bias.
yes, it's absolutely unfair.

but not overthinking it helps.
if you like someone, you ask them out.
if they accept, good on you.
if they reject, oh well.
repeat as necessary.

being self-conscious about it probably doesn't help.

just shrug it off and keep on doing yo thang.

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14 years 2 months ago #49836 by Chie_Yoshioka
lol, I'd heard nothing on who is & isn't. I don't imagine there are than many British/English girls who are either, but America is bigger I spose.

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14 years 2 months ago #50848 by dorkusdramus

Neoragogirl wrote: I guess it depends on the girl. It depends on their flavor of who they like. Everyone is different.
Im sure that there are tons of non Asian girls who are interested in Asian guys because of attractiveness and manners.
Like me for example, I LOVE asian dudes, so I have one. So, it wasn't that hard for my guy to get liked by a non asian girl. <3 We are now happier than ever.

p.s. This is not meant to taken seriously. haha. It's like 12:02 am, so my thoughts are scrambled.

Main point: There are non asian girls out there who are looking for an asian dude just as much as the asian dude is looking for the girl.




I agree, I think that there are a lot of girls that want an asian guy, the guys just need to step it up and not be afraid.

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14 years 2 months ago #50851 by sommeuel

joe375 wrote: So let me explain myself alittle more. So I live in TX and I would say I'm not one of those types that hangs out with his "own" if you know what I mean. Now I'm no Cassanova but I'm definitely not a creeper. I'm just a regular, sincere, and easy-going person. But all girls just don't seem to show any interest (even asian girls!) for that matter. I mean maybe b/c it's TX so girls typically looking more for the big Football, country boy type but I live in a pretty big city that's also pretty diverse. I found this site through a friend and noticed that there alot more European women here that are open or interested. Why is that? Lol is it b/c I'm in TX? Maybe I need to move to Europe haha. So what's yall take on this?



Just out of curiosity and I mean no offence, have you actually approached any of these women? It shouldn't matter that your asian/black/white or green. Mate, you just need to step up and approach women.

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14 years 2 months ago #50862 by joe375
Haha that is sort of an obvious answer my friend. Of course I do I'm friendly confident and easy going when it comes to those situations and girls just don't show interest. They're friendly but show no interest in pursuing or turn me down. Maybe it's their upbringing that they just haven't been exposed enough to people of my culture but ya. I'm glad that this thread has developed like it has thanks yall for your input!

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