Can somebody please help me overthink this?

so It's not the case that I like to discuss personal matters (with strangers / here in public especially when it's not something to brag about, in fact it's the polar opposite ), but this is actually important tho I'm not gonna go into the specific of why it's important at the moment.

Here goes the quick background story or the context if you will:
So I met this girl sometime around the middle of July & actually managed to arrange dinner with her the Tuesday before at a place she recommended. It's dinner so we ate and chatted even tho I was the only one drinking, not sure if that matters. I think it went "fine" , we didn't get close or anything. After dinner, I asked if she's near a train station & she's fine with me walking her back, she replied "yes, if you wanted to" so we walked & chatted more & before we parted - I did re-propose that we do dinner again mid August, she said "I will think about it" and I joked "wow it was that bad!" during the goodbye hug.

We further exchanged text after that Tuesday for sure & this is pretty much what she texted this past Friday:

I liked hanging out with you but unfortunately I don't think our personalities are matching. You're....Thank you for the fun time! ...

The rest of that text is just sugar coating so no need to get into that. And not going into my reply text, don't think that's necessary.

Just bit confused and not sure what real & what's not... I get it but don't get it...am I wrong to think she's just not interested enough or not at all

What do you think she's trying to say?
And what runs on their mind?

But please don't troll me yet since Im still kind of recoving you know jk js

shes telling you as it is, not interested. this is as much closure as one can hope for (give her credit for that). it sucks, but time to move on.

on a slightly different note. i already had the impression this was not going well for you from the second paragraph. when a chick is into you, most of the time they will show it. even the reservedly guarded ones.

If the connection broke before your expectation, they are not interested . Otherwise , it continues on

Literally in your position earlier. I was thinking I’m some good hunter and every little of my tricks just works. She ain’t getting away





It turns out she’s the good hunter , and I was fallen into her trap 🪤🫨

Sometimes there’s just no chemistry. If a woman tells you she’s not interested, believe her.

Cook for her, she will fall madly in love with you. Chick's love food and cats just like bongocat. He loves loves food. Thats how I caught him

At least she told you straight up unlike some girls that just want food & attention.

I'm really not trying to pry for more info here (you did post this after all, not me), but without more info as to what's said in the text, not even God knows how she feels. Yes, I know it could be sugarcoat but I mean, what you just described sounds like any date - good and bad dates.

With the little info that you provided, I could infer that the personalities thing is an excuse and really it's that she's not attracted to you, especially if the date went well or was anything other than boring. At least she was kind enough to provide a response - that shows that she's not one of these people out there who just ghost you after you look at them the wrong way haha. So just leave her be and move on. I know it sucks especially when you know you've done nothing wrong. Believe me, I've had plenty of job interviews where I got rejected and I was like "wait wtf? I literally stayed up all night prepping and I know I did fucking awesome, how the hell did I get rejected immediately like on the next day?" It's a similar feeling and most of the times, there's no explanation even if you email them asking for feedback. So the fact that she afforded you that little bit of kindness is kinda cool of her, tbh.

PS this generation's fucked.

booster wrote: Cook for her, she will fall madly in love with you. Chick's love food and cats just like bongocat. He loves loves food. Thats how I caught him

too late. theyve already eaten