Ok...so....do girls like shy Asian guys?

BlcKnight wrote: shy guys tent to run away, make sure you have a rob or a net with you ^^

lol good advice! ^^

so how do i know if a guy is shy or just not intereted?
and yeah asking directly sometimes doesen't work as well...cause for some it is too direct and they cant admit you know...
i think it is really hard to guess...
and there is the other point that on the net everyone can be different than for real. we are only writing, written words can cause so many misunderstandings.
it is not easy to communicate anyways. and now we even have different cultures as well. waha xD

but maybe it would be too easy if everything would be working just fine lol who knows...

Shy guys work at a different speed than everyone else. Be prepared to be "friended" then maybe more later on. Unless you're open enough hang out and/or show a bit of enthusiasm. It might take him a few tries to get over himself to ask you out, or... he might just fail.

Can't tell a lot of times with the shy ones. It's a roll of the dice.

Nampham wrote: I really hate when people say most Asian guys are shy and i hate Asian guys who act like a lady( about the look, the characteristic..) and men be stronger! there are a lot of Asian men who is very strong , confident and manyly,and we should change the fixed idea about Asian man!i think most of Korean star made a female image about Asian men( their look is like a lady, so weak...), i cant understand why teenagers these days really like those of guys, most of white lady is strong and u want to be weak in front of them if u want to date them? that is a shame !, so be more manly men!change ur hair , ur style...to be more male , i dont want to hear that fixed idea anymore and i am 100 % Asian.

first thing i want to say, i was not talking only of asian men, i should have emphasized this i am sorry. it was more to all men out there, as i don't know so many asian men myself.

hmm and for me it is not for the looks but more for the character men have.
most lack of responsability and how can i say strong character?
haha a guy can have as many muscles as hulk, what is the sense i that if some other guy grabs me or treats me bad and the hulk will run away or is just not interested?

i know many men in my life who just want fast sex. if they see you are intelligent or have "inner style" they run lol
i just cant respect this. and they don't want discussions. if in relationship there is something wrong (hhaha not for him for him its perfect when i wash his clothes and feed him) one has to talk about it. which means i am giving my opinion, then the other one is givng his opinion and we BOTH think about a solution. as each one of us should be interested in that both partners are happy, i think this is normal, otherwise if i am egoistic i dont need realtionship, i need mama who will clean my bum haha

that i smore what i meant. i hope u understand.

cause before we discuss it is importat to make clear: what is strong? and what is weak? what do i expect and what not?

ILoveCreampuffs wrote: Shy guys work at a different speed than everyone else. Be prepared to be "friended" then maybe more later on. Unless you're open enough hang out and/or show a bit of enthusiasm. It might take him a few tries to get over himself to ask you out, or... he might just fail.

Can't tell a lot of times with the shy ones. It's a roll of the dice.

thanx for your advice X) haha you know it is kind of hard, there are the ones who "fall into the house with whole door" means they go for it immedately (which is too much and makes me feel they only want sex) and then the opposite, the guys who just talk talk talk talk lol and nothing happens and you think wtf? am i not a woman for him? haha sometimes gives me the feeling of not being worth to be flirted at. and makes me sad cause i feel asexual then lol so it is too less. guess the middle is good. first be friended then talk, then flirt a little...not too much and not too less

Sometimes things will go well, and then he'll just stall at a point (seemingly for forever). A lot of times the dude will come around, but sometimes he'll need a gentle nudge or swift kick in the (behind). If anything, you'll be pretty familiar with the type of guy he is. Maybe too familiar.

ILoveCreampuffs wrote: Sometimes things will go well, and then he'll just stall at a point (seemingly for forever). A lot of times the dude will come around, but sometimes he'll need a gentle nudge or swift kick in the (behind). If anything, you'll be pretty familiar with the type of guy he is. Maybe too familiar.

bwahahaa xD guess i'm getting used to it by and by lol (as if i had any choice)
haha, but if u have never experienced this, it is sooo straaange!
i don't know what to think then and it is really going up and down..like rollercoaster lol cause sometime u think, ah! he likes me, he is interested and then...no, he isn't into me at all...and it is always like this if you let your own feelings happen, immediately he will show u that he is not interested wtf or at least it seems so... this is very exhausting...

haha i am getting tired a bit of this....guess will go on some vacation...

there is shy and there is shy meaning rude

I have to work out which one he is first if he is rude no

just shy yet has the character of a angel and manners of a prince I welcome him

If he is shy and hides a indecent moral behaviour that needs to be taken care of by a shrink he can miss me and hit on someone else, must be careful what shy man is hiding.

missi wrote: there is shy and there is shy meaning rude

I have to work out which one he is first if he is rude no

just shy yet has the character of a angel and manners of a prince I welcome him

If he is shy and hides a indecent moral behaviour that needs to be taken care of by a shrink he can miss me and hit on someone else, must be careful what shy man is hiding.

whoa! you have a point there! never thought of that! thank you for sharing your opnion!! you must have made certain experience with "shy" men...
haha, i am a little shocked now...because i never thought of a shy man hiding some indecent moral behaviour...>_<;;;

at this point i find a rubix cube easier to figure out! (compared to a guy) >< lol

kawaiikunoichi wrote: at this point i find a rubix cube easier to figure out! (compared to a guy) >< lol

BWAHAHA! and if i dun even have a clue of figuring out a rubix cube? then i am SO f****d xDDDDDD;;;;

*i see film in my mind with tons of women all over the world figuring out rubix cubes and many lonely guys* LOL