Ok...so....do girls like shy Asian guys?

I do! I like how some Asian guys are quite reserved and a bit mysterious, but I guess that's cause they are shy, although i usually can't tell if an Asian guy is being stuck up or just shy. I find Asian guys EXTREMELY difficult to read, anyone agree?

umm it's okay be shy but not too much >_< it's good to have a little of self confidence.

in general women dont like shy guys. they prefer the guy to do all the work. its just the way it works. but you also dont want to be so outgoing like some sleazy pick up artist.. thats just too much lol

I just had an interesting conversation with a female dating coach, who coached women to find the men of their dreams. She blew my mind with her answer and I agree completely. This is what she said:

Sometimes women ask her how to approach and ask out shy men. But she always advises them to never actually ask them out. The reason for that is if the man you have laid your eyes on doesn't even have the balls to chat you up, what will happen in a relationship?

When do you show your best side? You want to show the best side of you when you meet someone who you are interested in, right? And if that best side of the man isn't even man enough to chat her up, what would happen further down the relationship? Will the man then hide behind the woman in case of trouble? Will she have to play the role of a surrogate mother? Will she have to do everthing because the man is too shy to do it himself?

Obviously most women don't want that kind of guy.

So guys, don't be too shy.

rainny2048 wrote: I do! I like how some Asian guys are quite reserved and a bit mysterious, but I guess that's cause they are shy, although i usually can't tell if an Asian guy is being stuck up or just shy. I find Asian guys EXTREMELY difficult to read, anyone agree?

yes

TigerInside wrote: I just had an interesting conversation with a female dating coach, who coached women to find the men of their dreams. She blew my mind with her answer and I agree completely. This is what she said:

Sometimes women ask her how to approach and ask out shy men. But she always advises them to never actually ask them out. The reason for that is if the man you have laid your eyes on doesn't even have the balls to chat you up, what will happen in a relationship?

When do you show your best side? You want to show the best side of you when you meet someone who you are interested in, right? And if that best side of the man isn't even man enough to chat her up, what would happen further down the relationship? Will the man then hide behind the woman in case of trouble? Will she have to play the role of a surrogate mother? Will she have to do everthing because the man is too shy to do it himself?

Obviously most women don't want that kind of guy.

So guys, don't be too shy.

Hm, that's a lot of negativity. What's her real advice for these women? What techniques did she have if not approaching someone directly?

I do But there could be a little problem to talk with them because I'm shy too

I like brave boys, very talkative that know what they want and what they expect from life. I like planners or organizer, just somebody similar to me, because I want to become a manager and I want to have an equal partner

...ehm not that much...

god no