Tips On How To Approach An Asian Guy/White Girl

haha just give the guy a interested gaze and when he looks your way, give him a smile....not a creepy stalkerish smile but a genuine smile. if he smiles back, you can at least have a conversation by going up to him and saying hi. i personally love smiles. =]]


also, although anxiety is hard to get over for everyone, which sucks. we live once and we're probably not going to see that "hot person" again, so hell go for it. just don't be a creeper. unless he/she is into that, just kidding.

if i'd smile at strangers, they would run away xD

alby wrote:

haha just give the guy a interested gaze and when he looks your way, give him a smile....not a creepy stalkerish smile but a genuine smile. if he smiles back, you can at least have a conversation by going up to him and saying hi. i personally love smiles. =]]


also, although anxiety is hard to get over for everyone, which sucks. we live once and we're probably not going to see that "hot person" again, so hell go for it. just don't be a creeper. unless he/she is into that, just kidding.

sooo tilting my head to the side and smiling like the Joker wouldnt work?


Why so serious?

alby wrote:

haha just give the guy a interested gaze and when he looks your way, give him a smile....not a creepy stalkerish smile but a genuine smile. if he smiles back, you can at least have a conversation by going up to him and saying hi. i personally love smiles. =]]


also, although anxiety is hard to get over for everyone, which sucks. we live once and we're probably not going to see that "hot person" again, so hell go for it. just don't be a creeper. unless he/she is into that, just kidding.

Hahah thats what we tell ourselves all the time...You only have one life to live, and the odds of seeing that "hot person" again are slim, so just GO FOR IT!!!!!!

Amelia and Elly wrote:

alby wrote:

haha just give the guy a interested gaze and when he looks your way, give him a smile....not a creepy stalkerish smile but a genuine smile. if he smiles back, you can at least have a conversation by going up to him and saying hi. i personally love smiles. =]]


also, although anxiety is hard to get over for everyone, which sucks. we live once and we're probably not going to see that "hot person" again, so hell go for it. just don't be a creeper. unless he/she is into that, just kidding.

Hahah thats what we tell ourselves all the time...You only have one life to live, and the odds of seeing that "hot person" again are slim, so just GO FOR IT!!!!!!

haha i know its easy to say but hard to do, which sucks. =p

It takes lots of guts to approach someone. lol. But if you've got the courage..

For an example if you're in a clothing store, you could ask him/her for suggestions on what to buy for your family or baby brothers/sisters for Christmas cos you know Christmas is coming up soon.

Since you're approaching someone of different races, you could prob ask them about their cultures and stuffs to keep the conversation going. I mean who doesnt like to talk about themselves? You can tell them you like their languages and you find it sexy.. like French. haha

That's just my opinion so don't blame me if you get the dirty looks. If you still find it hard, imagine them as someone you could easily approach as hard as possible. say.. Maria Sharapova. Oh wait. Jacky Chan? no?

Last option - have a shot or two of absinthe or a few bottle of beers. That works wonder for your courage.. only. maybe.

dchen wrote:

It takes lots of guts to approach someone. lol. But if you've got the courage..

For an example if you're in a clothing store, you could ask him/her for suggestions on what to buy for your family or baby brothers/sisters for Christmas cos you know Christmas is coming up soon.

Since you're approaching someone of different races, you could prob ask them about their cultures and stuffs to keep the conversation going. I mean who doesnt like to talk about themselves? You can tell them you like their languages and you find it sexy.. like French. haha

That's just my opinion so don't blame me if you get the dirty looks. If you still find it hard, imagine them as someone you could easily approach as hard as possible. say.. Maria Sharapova. Oh wait. Jacky Chan? no?

Last option - have a shot or two of absinthe or a few bottle of beers. That works wonder for your courage.. only. maybe.

Haha could I choose the last option? But I'd make a total fool of myself... XD

Amelia and Elly wrote:

dchen wrote:

It takes lots of guts to approach someone. lol. But if you've got the courage..

For an example if you're in a clothing store, you could ask him/her for suggestions on what to buy for your family or baby brothers/sisters for Christmas cos you know Christmas is coming up soon.

Since you're approaching someone of different races, you could prob ask them about their cultures and stuffs to keep the conversation going. I mean who doesnt like to talk about themselves? You can tell them you like their languages and you find it sexy.. like French. haha

That's just my opinion so don't blame me if you get the dirty looks. If you still find it hard, imagine them as someone you could easily approach as hard as possible. say.. Maria Sharapova. Oh wait. Jacky Chan? no?

Last option - have a shot or two of absinthe or a few bottle of beers. That works wonder for your courage.. only. maybe.

Haha could I choose the last option? But I'd make a total fool of myself... XD

or you could have a friend that has no shame whatsoever to go up to the guy and tell him. lol believe it or not...I am just like that...i have no shame telling someone else that someone likes them...

however..i will not do it for myself. even if i happen to like the same guy..haha wow...im pathetic.

mahe78 wrote:
or you could have a friend that has no shame whatsoever to go up to the guy and tell him. lol believe it or not...I am just like that...i have no shame telling someone else that someone likes them...

however..i will not do it for myself. even if i happen to like the same guy..haha wow...im pathetic. [/quote]

ahhhh yeah friends are good for that, but often times, its better to just tell someone you like them yourself...sometimes involving friends makes it worse!! (experience LOL)
and hmmmmmm we dont do that for ourselves either...and idk many ppl do...we guess cuz it makes you feel..vulnerable, you know?

Amelia and Elly wrote:

mahe78 wrote:
or you could have a friend that has no shame whatsoever to go up to the guy and tell him. lol believe it or not...I am just like that...i have no shame telling someone else that someone likes them...

however..i will not do it for myself. even if i happen to like the same guy..haha wow...im pathetic.

ahhhh yeah friends are good for that, but often times, its better to just tell someone you like them yourself...sometimes involving friends makes it worse!! (experience LOL)
and hmmmmmm we dont do that for ourselves either...and idk many ppl do...we guess cuz it makes you feel..vulnerable, you know? [/quote]

Yeah exactly! When i was in the 7th grade me and a friend of mine liked the same guy but i was so shy i could never tell him...but would have had no problem telling him she liked him..( i didnt though coz she didnt want me too)

Thing is though...He DID like me..he was always flirting with me..but i was so shy that I wasnt able to respond in a positive manner...

When im around a guy I like and he is flirting....I tend to get an attitude..and not a nice one...I just dont know how to really act...im so far from being girly ang giggly its insane...it was really bad when I was a kid..Ive mellowed out though.

I'm a little better at giving out singals that i like a guy back..

but not much better...XP

lol im really messed up..

SO yeah..if i am basically being a wing girl..i can talk to a guy just fine...promoting how good a friend is and all that..

but for myself it is like brain lock...i go on temporary DUUUUUUUH mode.