Tips On How To Approach An Asian Guy/White Girl

Recently reading some of the forum threads, we've noticed that many people say to "just go for it" when you like someone...
But many white girls (and other girls) feel intimidated when approaching an Asian guy in particular...
So we were thinking...how about some of the guys on this site give tips to us nervous girls who would like to approach a Hot Asian Male? (Otherwise known as a HAM?) lol



OH, and if anyone would like to give the guys tips on how to approach girls, that's fine too.

well, those ppl were right bout this...there is no better way than just to be relaxed, say hi and then see how it works out. Besides, there is no universal keyword of approaching some guys or girls. As everyone is an individual, or should be one, everyone has another reaction.

There's a hot Polish girl in my class and she just arrived to America from Europe. I don't know how to approach her. I sit one desk behind her and I don't know how to talk to her.

yeah, Ginya is right.

hot asian men, not hot asian men, ugly asian men,
they are all the same. and of course, race doesn't matter.
if you're intimidated by their looks,
then just don't be, don't think about it much, and be yourself.
that's what i think.
but yeah, it's natural to feel little nervous around attractive people.
yet, that's the fun part of dating or getting to know someone right?

Amelia and Elly wrote:

Recently reading some of the forum threads, we've noticed that many people say to "just go for it" when you like someone...
But many white girls (and other girls) feel intimidated when approaching an Asian guy in particular...
So we were thinking...how about some of the guys on this site give tips to us nervous girls who would like to approach a Hot Asian Male? (Otherwise known as a HAM?) lol



OH, and if anyone would like to give the guys tips on how to approach girls, that's fine too.

Let's find out the culprit of your being intimidated and find a solution from there. What is it about hot Asian men that intimidate you? Is this intimidation any different from hot men in general?

Keiryu40:

There's a hot Polish girl in my class and she just arrived to America from Europe. I don't know how to approach her. I sit one desk behind her and I don't know how to talk to her.

She's in a new country and in a new culture and in a new school. I think it likely that she is very open to making new friends. I know I would be if I were in her position. I don't mean to repeat this suggestion, but just talk to her. She'd be happy that you did.

You could ask her how she likes America or what Poland is like. Given the circumstances, these topics are very natural (and easy) ice-breakers.

Final advice - exude confidence. This is key in approaching any female.

Good luck!

Pauly Eat World wrote:

Amelia and Elly wrote:

Recently reading some of the forum threads, we've noticed that many people say to "just go for it" when you like someone...
But many white girls (and other girls) feel intimidated when approaching an Asian guy in particular...
So we were thinking...how about some of the guys on this site give tips to us nervous girls who would like to approach a Hot Asian Male? (Otherwise known as a HAM?) lol



OH, and if anyone would like to give the guys tips on how to approach girls, that's fine too.

Let's find out the culprit of your being intimidated and find a solution from there. What is it about hot Asian men that intimidate you? Is this intimidation any different from hot men in general?

What is it that intimidates me? hmmm... I'd have to say..That some of the Asian guys in my area seem like they don't wanna be bothered.. Know what I mean? So I feel like I can't just go up to them and say hi, because they'll seem annoyed.. Does that make sense?

Have you ever considered, that some guy may also think exactly the same bout you? That you do look like you don't wanna be bothered? And refrained to come over n say "hi!"

Hi Ginya wrote:

Have you ever considered, that some guy may also think exactly the same bout you? That you do look like you don't wanna be bothered? And refrained to come over n say "hi!"

Hmmm never thought about that... Well, now what? Haha

Amelia and Elly wrote:
What is it that intimidates me? hmmm... I'd have to say..That some of the Asian guys in my area seem like they don't wanna be bothered.. Know what I mean? So I feel like I can't just go up to them and say hi, because they'll seem annoyed.. Does that make sense?
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Maybe they are just too shy to let you know they are also interested in you?

I know I am. If there is a nice girl, I will avoid to look at her or just look at her from a distance. Cuz I will feel "embarrassed" if she notice me looking at her and I will pretend looking at something else. When I was younger, I even tried to do something seriously or play cool and pretend she wasnt there, or even walk away. Cuz I didnt know how to talk to girls and get very nervous if they came to talk to me.

SO....maybe the asian guys in your area are just like me?

Yo! Twins!

Either or both of you girls seeing somebody now?

here are two solutions:
No. 1:
Get a little stuff with you all the time, such as a lighter or a sticker, and you may write sth on it? Come to him when you see him and ask, excuse me, is this yours? as if you picked up it on the ground.
So you'd start a talk......

Tips: it's very important that what stuff do you use, get yourself inspired. (btw, don't use big stuffs like a rock or a brick, lol)

No. 2 :

Go to youtube.com, type "how to hit on an asian guy", good luck!

XD