Tips On How To Approach An Asian Guy/White Girl

Well try and communicate and see if you get along (better to be 2 of them and 2 of you) or 1on1
but saying Hello'' is not good.
ask her/him for the ''Time'' or something it works sometimes.. keep the convo going!! plz dont give up!

worth a try ~
if you cant get the talking then forget it. find the one u think u could talk to.

Don't go up to them and say Nothing'' shitting urself is making them look weird to you!! and they will just walk away~
like kelly clarkson song^^ i like it. (8)

feel her/his bum! then s/he'll like it xD
PERVERT!! DON'T DO THAT! XD

come with me and i'll get u a Girl for (boys)only)


Thank you for reading my unhelpful ''tips''

Ken.

Amelia and Elly wrote:

Recently reading some of the forum threads, we've noticed that many people say to "just go for it" when you like someone...
But many white girls (and other girls) feel intimidated when approaching an Asian guy in particular...
So we were thinking...how about some of the guys on this site give tips to us nervous girls who would like to approach a Hot Asian Male? (Otherwise known as a HAM?) lol



OH, and if anyone would like to give the guys tips on how to approach girls, that's fine too.

How about SPAM? Single Pathetic Asian Man... lol

tms320.dsp wrote:

Amelia and Elly wrote:

Recently reading some of the forum threads, we've noticed that many people say to "just go for it" when you like someone...
But many white girls (and other girls) feel intimidated when approaching an Asian guy in particular...
So we were thinking...how about some of the guys on this site give tips to us nervous girls who would like to approach a Hot Asian Male? (Otherwise known as a HAM?) lol



OH, and if anyone would like to give the guys tips on how to approach girls, that's fine too.

How about SPAM? Single Pathetic Asian Man... lol

I am definitely a SPAM

well I think it is a lot more easier for girls to approach guys since most of the guys will at least be polite to the ladies and won't ignore them completely unlike while guys approaching girls which is just the opposite in many cases

Personally I sometimes find it super hard to get someones attention that you're really interested in. It's not like you can walk into a mall and grab the someones hand and start pour your feelings out.

Also I'm not even sure what signals are good and bad. So I treat every sign I get as a negative signal and just move on. I strongly believe that most Asian guys are shy and will rarely initiate anything (not all, but most). Now cyber space is a different story...it's not in person and if things get awkward no one really knows haha.

So I guess my tip is make a friendly conversation. For example if your just waiting in line, paying for groceries, or even waiting for the bus. Speak up and have a small conversation with someone. It could be about how long the line is, or ask what time it is. That way you can break the ice, and it shows that your a friendly person. So lets say the bus comes and she doesn't have enough fare...offer to pay for it and you just got yourself a friend to have a conversation with. You could have just paid for a life time of happiness.

Jay S wrote:

Personally I sometimes find it super hard to get someones attention that you're really interested in. It's not like you can walk into a mall and grab the someones hand and start pour your feelings out.

Also I'm not even sure what signals are good and bad. So I treat every sign I get as a negative signal and just move on. I strongly believe that most Asian guys are shy and will rarely initiate anything (not all, but most). Now cyber space is a different story...it's not in person and if things get awkward no one really knows haha.

So I guess my tip is make a friendly conversation. For example if your just waiting in line, paying for groceries, or even waiting for the bus. Speak up and have a small conversation with someone. It could be about how long the line is, or ask what time it is. That way you can break the ice, and it shows that your a friendly person. So lets say the bus comes and she doesn't have enough fare...offer to pay for it and you just got yourself a friend to have a conversation with. You could have just paid for a life time of happiness.

Aawwww dont take every signal as negative! Most girls honestly won't give off subtle negative signals..We either give off VERY obvious signals that we don't like you, or VERY obvious signals that we LIKE you...

i only give obvious signals when i'm drunk....and i don't drink alcohol anymore lol.i'm always waiting for the guy to approach me ^^"

Amelia and Elly wrote:

Jay S wrote:

Personally I sometimes find it super hard to get someones attention that you're really interested in. It's not like you can walk into a mall and grab the someones hand and start pour your feelings out.

Also I'm not even sure what signals are good and bad. So I treat every sign I get as a negative signal and just move on. I strongly believe that most Asian guys are shy and will rarely initiate anything (not all, but most). Now cyber space is a different story...it's not in person and if things get awkward no one really knows haha.

So I guess my tip is make a friendly conversation. For example if your just waiting in line, paying for groceries, or even waiting for the bus. Speak up and have a small conversation with someone. It could be about how long the line is, or ask what time it is. That way you can break the ice, and it shows that your a friendly person. So lets say the bus comes and she doesn't have enough fare...offer to pay for it and you just got yourself a friend to have a conversation with. You could have just paid for a life time of happiness.

Aawwww dont take every signal as negative! Most girls honestly won't give off subtle negative signals..We either give off VERY obvious signals that we don't like you, or VERY obvious signals that we LIKE you...

You're right...when i like a guy..even though I am shy..I tend to smile at him more..and just be a bit more flirty and girly..(* which is completely unlike me) the signs are pretty obvious.

but when i dont like a guy...I drop a boulder on his head...XD


NO! Me no likey you! *SMASH* lol

Lunamy wrote:

i only give obvious signals when i'm drunk....and i don't drink alcohol anymore lol.i'm always waiting for the guy to approach me ^^"

you mean like this?


"hic...you know baby...ur really HOOOT...hic...so what say a girl like you and a guy like me..hic..go back to my place...and have a little fun? hic"


XD lol..im kidding.

mahe78 wrote:

You're right...when i like a guy..even though I am shy..I tend to smile at him more..and just be a bit more flirty and girly..(* which is completely unlike me) the signs are pretty obvious.

but when i dont like a guy...I drop a boulder on his head...XD


NO! Me no likey you! *SMASH* lol

Ahahahahha you drop a boulder on his head...while we would throw a stick of dynamite at him XD