What does it mean when a girl keeps staring at you

is it kind of unfair?? why boy has to make the first step....... i still don't understand the logic......... Silly me...

ok, today many girls make the first step, too.
I think it's just because the guy should show, how brave he is.

I admit, I am outmoded in this thing

It is definitely a "Stare-Down"! The one who blinks first, lost the match and has to do what the winner says

So just keep staring back and make grimaces or funny sounds to increase your chances of winning!

digit02 wrote:

I'd say it doesn't matter whether she stares at you or not. If you find a girl attractive and you wanna get to know her better then go talk to her, ask her to go to the movies with you, do something.

Afraid of rejection? So what? Rejection lasts seconds. At least you won't be living your whole life wondering "What if".

A simple, " no" rejection only hurts a few seconds...

but a "hell no..why the hell would i wanna go out with ( insert racial or prejudiced slur here) like you?" hurts much longer...

ive gotten the prejudiced slurs because of my weight. Ok ive never asked a guy out..but i have been asked out as a joke before. ( school of course)...since i knew it was a joke..i just politely declined. So i got the typical..." I didnt want to go out with ur fat ass anyway!" followed by some more prejudiced choice words about my weight.

Sure my situation was reversed but still.....either way its hurts...

I'm not saying ppl shouldnt at least try..I'm just saying to be careful ya know....Ppl can be really mean.

If she's like me then it's possible that she just spaced out... But yeah, talk to her!

mahe78 wrote:

digit02 wrote:

I'd say it doesn't matter whether she stares at you or not. If you find a girl attractive and you wanna get to know her better then go talk to her, ask her to go to the movies with you, do something.

Afraid of rejection? So what? Rejection lasts seconds. At least you won't be living your whole life wondering "What if".

A simple, " no" rejection only hurts a few seconds...

but a "hell no..why the hell would i wanna go out with ( insert racial or prejudiced slur here) like you?" hurts much longer...

ive gotten the prejudiced slurs because of my weight. Ok ive never asked a guy out..but i have been asked out as a joke before. ( school of course)...since i knew it was a joke..i just politely declined. So i got the typical..." I didnt want to go out with ur fat ass anyway!" followed by some more prejudiced choice words about my weight.

Sure my situation was reversed but still.....either way its hurts...

I'm not saying ppl shouldnt at least try..I'm just saying to be careful ya know....Ppl can be really mean.

I know what you went through. I'm no "Mr. Handsome" nor am I the "skinny, muscular" type so I've had my fair share of painful rejections. lol. But I've learned so much from those experiences.

If a guy/girl goes out of their way to insult you, it may hurt a lot but just imagine how much more it'd hurt if they had actually said yes. You'd definitely be better off with a "Hell no, why the f*ck would I go out with someone like you?!" than being in an abusive relationship with a total ass/bitch.

SAM wrote:

is it kind of unfair?? why boy has to make the first step....... i still don't understand the logic......... Silly me...

Historically in a male-dominated world, it was preferred that girls should be as less promiscuous as possible. Approaching men too often and she is labelled a slut.

Being a "slut" in the old days would mean everyone wants to sleep with her, but nobody wants to marry her, because she is considered more likely to cheat.

In those days women don't have much income, so cutting off marriage potential would mean cutting off her life line if she is not from a wealthy family.

Male on the other hand were given the social acceptance to have mistresses, and sometimes even concubines, so as long he could provide for his existing spouse(s), "getting around" was considered ok.

That's why feminists advocates income equality for women, so she doesn't have to rely on marriage to feed herself, and thus giving her more power to choosing her spouse. So the whole expectation of men taking initiative is more of a relic, but we're conditioned to take it for granted.

She has passed out with her eyes open and you happen to be in the line of sight.

... seriously it depends on what else is going on. If she smiles when she sees you notice it then it is a pretty good sign she is interested.

Otherwise it could be any number of things, like a TV behind you. LOL

lol shut up tou you would shit your self in that situation XD hahahaha

Crackwhore wrote:

lol shut up tou you would shit your self in that situation XD hahahaha

I say it to you all the time and you reject me all the time.