who do you think should make the first move?

Rentaloppa wrote: ^what do you mean most women are too scared to make the first move ? That contradicts the 50 ladies that hit on you isn’t it ?

None of them asked me out on a date. At the end of the day I picked my mountain bike over women.

ColdasIce wrote:

Rentaloppa wrote: ^what do you mean most women are too scared to make the first move ? That contradicts the 50 ladies that hit on you isn’t it ?

None of them asked me out on a date. At the end of the day I picked my mountain bike over women.

Yeah stay clear from women , they’ll bang you like expensive escort like in the middle of running out of time

I've tried to but about 9 times out of 10 I end up getting rejected so I pretty much have given up

Kaitlyn wrote: I've tried to but about 9 times out of 10 I end up getting rejected so I pretty much have given up

same

You need to approach 100 men.

I touched hands with a self checkout attendant. She had her hand on the scale/scanner and I put my hand on top of her and kept it there for 4 to 5 seconds. The fact she didn't move her hand away meant she didn't mind. She could have slapped me! lol
Next I see her she claimed she had to clean out the garbage from the bottom of the scanner/weight scale, when she could have empty the other ones. Maybe it was an excuse. i will eventually give her my name and let her call me. I am not interested in relationship or sex. I need to make sure she isn't a single mother and go from there. Been a long time making a move on a woman. Attractive women are a dime dozen so what. She obviously didn't flirt at me since she was at work. She seemed super comfortable standing very close to me.
How many guys has the balls to do that?

Lina wrote: evidentemente prefiero que sea el, pero me gusta facilitar las cosas, no puedo dejar de tontear y coquetear , enviar señales de correspondencia, un poco de colaboración es buena si no quieres perder la oportunidad si te gusta alguien, algunas personas son tan tímidas y necesitan sentirse mas seguros para actuar .

As a woman, who has been rather direct with men: at least here, the risk of being taken advantage and led on if you do that, is very high, unfortunately.
As a woman, who has been rather direct with men: at least here, the risk of being taken advantage and led on if you do that, is very high, unfortunately.
I've also had many men who were seemingly into me, completely back off when I matched their interest.
So, while I prefer being true to how I am, direct, tread carefully
I think it's not uncommon that men here are still a little backwards on the inside, even if they say otherwise.
I've personally have many men that, just because I showed some interested in them, assumed I wanted to #### them right there and then, or that they could do whatever with me. It has led to many unpleasant encounters, and sometimes I hadn't even kissed the person.
Anecdote: I was called desperate by an old friend for asking him to hook up, after he had asked me a few days before (and I didn't say no but was surprised)
Taken advantage or led on, in the sense that, those men played with my feelings, or built my hopes up, when they weren't even interested on me. Sometimes just for their ego boost. Some even hid they had GF's.
I'm not saying don't be direct, but expect cultural machismo, and be careful. If its a small place, people will surely talk.
I personally enjoy being the one who approaches and not being passive, but it has led me to very unpleasant situations with men. I'm just warning that, in a foreign country, I'd first gauge the situation, and then later decide what to do.
I personally wish I had stopped myself and think first. Or not had been that quick to approach and gauge the person a little bit more.
I'm not advicing against approaching first, or against casual,

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loom wrote:

Lina wrote: evidentemente prefiero que sea el, pero me gusta facilitar las cosas, no puedo dejar de tontear y coquetear , enviar señales de correspondencia, un poco de colaboración es buena si no quieres perder la oportunidad si te gusta alguien, algunas personas son tan tímidas y necesitan sentirse mas seguros para actuar .

As a woman, who has been rather direct with men: at least here, the risk of being taken advantage and led on if you do that, is very high, unfortunately.
As a woman, who has been rather direct with men: at least here, the risk of being taken advantage and led on if you do that, is very high, unfortunately.
I've also had many men who were seemingly into me, completely back off when I matched their interest.
So, while I prefer being true to how I am, direct, tread carefully
I think it's not uncommon that men here are still a little backwards on the inside, even if they say otherwise.
I've personally have many men that, just because I showed some interested in them, assumed I wanted to #### them right there and then, or that they could do whatever with me. It has led to many unpleasant encounters, and sometimes I hadn't even kissed the person.
Anecdote: I was called desperate by an old friend for asking him to hook up, after he had asked me a few days before (and I didn't say no but was surprised)
Taken advantage or led on, in the sense that, those men played with my feelings, or built my hopes up, when they weren't even interested on me. Sometimes just for their ego boost. Some even hid they had GF's.
I'm not saying don't be direct, but expect cultural machismo, and be careful. If its a small place, people will surely talk.
I personally enjoy being the one who approaches and not being passive, but it has led me to very unpleasant situations with men. I'm just warning that, in a foreign country, I'd first gauge the situation, and then later decide what to do.
I personally wish I had stopped myself and think first. Or not had been that quick to approach and gauge the person a little bit more.
I'm not advicing against approaching first, or against casual,

] www.reddit.com/r/ask...ursue_a_man_in/

Are you beautiful enough to chat up men though? No photo, hence it's hard to judge...

Men who are usually okay with the overtly asking usually lack female attention, hence I suspect you won't ask these types out so directly anyway. The type who are handsome enough to prompt you to ask usually would be more cautious, thinking that you maybe a fallen woman that is after something from them.

But if the girl is hot enough, it usually override the men's natural sense of self protection...

hmmm.... the plot thickens....

Whoever is interested first

Kaitlyn wrote: I've tried to but about 9 times out of 10 I end up getting rejected so I pretty much have given up

That's men's experience.