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who do you think should make the first move?

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7 years 2 months ago #485504 by kmtau
I've always been around people who believe it's the guy's responsibility to make the first move on the girl he likes, but although I'm quite shy, I'm also quiet impatient. So, guys, who do you think should make the first move? What do you think of girls who take the initiative?

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7 years 2 months ago #485505 by voxaa
I think guys should make the first move..but girls who do it are pretty incredible

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7 years 2 months ago #485506 by jasonlovecamera
Replied by jasonlovecamera on topic who do you think should make the first move?
either gender, cuz equality.

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7 years 2 months ago #485509 by zen
Some girls approached me in school,I turn them down because I was having someone else in mind. I regreted later until now. I think there is no shame in trying. Because my personal choices aren't always correct.

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7 years 2 months ago #485511 by Kirua
If you don't make a move "you risk" him not making a move on you, so it's up to you ;)
If you want something it's better to act upon it's achievement than simply wait.

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7 years 2 months ago #485512 by xxcorrinnexx
Replied by xxcorrinnexx on topic who do you think should make the first move?
Every situation is different, sometimes the guy does, sometimes I do. It’s personal preference. I have this grand idea in my head that life is like a Kdrama but it really isn’t lol

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7 years 2 months ago - 7 years 2 months ago #485518 by booster
I think whoever wants it more should make the first move. Don't want to wait or it could never happen. Well you can always talk about it too but whats the fun in that. Girls that take the first move is very attractive at least to me. It tells me they have the drive and courage to go after what they want which is a huge turn on.
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7 years 2 months ago #485539 by Poto
The one with the green light

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7 years 2 months ago #485542 by kk1980
Women should make the first move. One thing I learned is that you have control of what you want and like. If a guy makes the first move he might be consider to aggressive. Personally I would love for women to approach me more. When I do it, it seems like i'm coming on to strong and looks like i'm trying to get into their pants.

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7 years 2 months ago #485544 by Namnomnom
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It's not about making the first move, it's about having something to conversate about. I've made the first move, but my problem was usually that I couldn't keep the conversation alive, and it ate me up. Pretty much, make sure you have an idea what to talk about; look at their clothing, compliment their hair, check if they're wearing a ring. :lol: :angry:

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