Stories of Hey-Ai couples!

eherm..... *mic test mic test*

ok so I am gonna start this by saying websites like "hey-ai" really do work. Right, erm well me and rhi have been going out for a couple of months now (adding the time we first met here) so all I can say is its going really nice. never been so happy to be honest. she always makes me special. i love her and she loves me too. Anyway why am I saying this to you? not that you care right? haha ok ok back to the topic. Well our story is a bit different really. it wasn't the usual me(the guy) saying "hi there cutie, you look really gorgeous or you just made me melt and stuffs like that( you get the point). and (the girl saying aww thank you, that's nice of you) type of thing. I just said to her (note: exact words) "Hi there! nice to see another english girl here welcome" . and she replied back, " I'm welsh not english" I was like oh right sorry i mixed it up i guess That's it! The thing this when i first saw her well its pretty obvious that she's a lovely girl, and I think every guy here on hey ai would agree with me right guys? lol ehermm (but she's mine now so back off ) but yeah that time when we first spoke, I was errr in a relationship with another girl well but not really a serious one (sorry to say this lol) but still I respected that that's why I didn't go for rhi and ask her if she has msn or something. But still I said Hi. then much to my surprise she gave me her msn( haha sorry baby I need to tell the truth) I was like.. Waaaaaaaaa Thank God lol.... so since that time, we always talk on msn, every night actually lol. Then we exchanged numbers, called her, we spoke although I was really really nervous when we first spoke on the phone. So yeah not long after that that we decided to meet up as from where I live is just 2 hours to her place. So I went to meet her. (Oh God this is the most embarrassing moment now) that was 2nd of October, my train landed at the station. then as i walk towards the exit. I saw her sitting down and she looked at me, smiled at me, and to be honest. I nearly pooped because of the nervousness lol... It was like the world is being in slow motion. so there i was. standing infront of her and the first thing i said to her was............. "your taller than me!" hahaha damn we always laugh when we talk about that really. (but the reason why she was taller than me that time is because she was wearing heels 5 inches heels i think or 3 whatever) errr so there you are... I'm gonna cut this short now. I just want to say that, if it worked for us, then it should work for you too. just don't give up really. or sometimes don't look for it, let it find you. one day you will just be surprise ^^ so anyway I guess your pretty sick of my blabbering now haha... apologies for that.

Bye guys! thank you for reading and goodluck!

Awwwwww that's adorable, skye I wish you two the best of luck.

When I first joined hey-ai, I wasn't looking for anything deep, I just wanted friendship. I was so anti-relationship, I even made a new years resolution not to fall in like or love with any guys for the entire year. I was done with romantic love and all its bs. That lasted for about 5 months. All I did was say "welcome to hey-ai, enjoy your stay" to Ian, like I do to every one else, then he responded, and then we started talking. Turns out we're both geeks, and have a lot in common, but I wasn't going to let down my guard. I didn't want a relationship, I was determined to be single. Then June 13th, he asks me.... I'm sitting there like oh crap, what do I say? I don't want to hurt his feelings. Then I'm like meh, why not? I like him too, it could work. So that's how it happened. Some where between the day I greeted him, and June 13th something happened, not sure what, and, well, now we've been together for mmmm, I'd say going on 5 months now.

My life would have been easier if I'd never met him, but, I'm glad I did Now he's the center of my little world, and I wouldn't have it any other way. Our situation is a bit complicated as those who know us can tell you, but, it's ours just the same

Well, hey-ai has another success story. This board doesn't have nearly enough stories anyways. So time to contribute...

To begin with, I've only been on this site 42 days. So it's kind of funny how fast things have moved for me.
I joined this site after ending a 2 1/2 year relationship with my boyfriend. I had to do a lot of soul searching but long story short that relationship had ended a long time before I left.
I've always been more attracted to Asian men anyways (my ex being Caucasian). So I thought it was time to try dating Asian men again, which just seems natural for me anyways.
Hey-ai was the first website I joined (basically the only one actually).
I got lots of pms and messages from a ton of nice people.
After talking for a couple weeks i kind of knew the ones I wanted to possibly meet with or get to know more.
I added some people to Skype and we'd talk and cam etc.

Then one day when I was in the Cam chat on here I had someone add me to Skype, he had no information on his profile. No pictures. He even had a stupid name.
But, I guess he seemed nice (even a little weird, which I can respect ). He put on his webcam on Skype when I was in the chat, and he was very cute. But, extremely odd. I hardly got any information out of him. And he was cocky as hell (major turn off ). So I just left and went to eat dinner. It wasn't until I got back and we cammed one on one that I realized he was special.
He told me some things, although not much. But I got to know his personality.
Over the next couple weeks we talked more and more.
And we decided to meet up, since I was going to be in the area anyways.
Getting to him was what I can describe as Hell.
My bus was overbooked, I had to sit 3 hours in the bus station alone.
Then the bus broke down 2 blocks away from the destination, I had to walk two city blocks in heels lugging my heavy bag... then travel an hour on public transit.
But I finally made it to meet him, battered, cold, pissed off...
We met and none of that mattered He brightened my day, and has been brightening it ever since.

Since we first met he's met nearly my whole family, we've spent the holiday together, and things have just clicked.
It's been a very fast progression but at the same time It's been so natural.

Now I'm going to be living with him for 3 months while I go to school I can't imagine not being with him now. So It's thanks to hey-ai. A very unlikely place. I never thought this site would work for me, not to mention so fast...

Well there's more to the story of course, especially why i'm going to live with him
But I won't bore everyone with details.

Well, hello guys. A lot of you don't know who I am, heck, sometimes I don't even know who I am. I'm random, spontanious, weird and sometimes just strange. Like some men, I've gone through the whole heartache process. It was a long time ago and for the sake of not boring anyone, I'll just sum up the experience as something really really bad.

These sites are good for those that pair up with the right person. Too many times I've seen a hopeful female hooking up with a guy looking to notch another hole in his belt. In turn, the female loses self respect, and meets up with a hopeful asian male just to tear his goals apart. Then being heartbroken, the asian male retaliates by hating women and just toy with their emotions....and thus the cycle continues. Other times, it's just a fetish/desperate run on one or both parties involved. Since most of these communities are small, they tend to "recycle" their resources.

I for one was an avid observer, and never indulged in any of these activities. Thank goodness for gossipers, I don't do anything but listen attentively. There was a person I have spoken too, who was nice when I first spoke to her, but later on changed her mannerisms. After asking around, I found things I wish I didn't. I just didn't feel that way about her, but still felt bad that it had to happen. Sometimes I wish that I could've done something to help.

So that's my introduction, now to my main point. I met this person on here, and noticed they weren't far from where I lived. Knowing some of the dirty lying hounds around these parts, and still underlying guilt from not helping the person I knew...were basically the reasons I first initiated talking to the person. However, the more I talked to her, the more I noticed how different she was. It became that I couldn't wait to hear from her. Strange since this didn't happen to me in such a long time. I wanted to know more. More about everything. About her, her past, her aspirations for the future, everything. I even wanted to now the authenticity of my emotions, if they were justifiable. Thus, we decided to meet. It was here maybe I might be struck by reality. She might not be who I invisioned her as.

We ended up meeting one cold friday evening. I was right, she wasn't the person I invisioned, she was a whole lot better. The entire night felt so right, flowed very naturally. Afterwards I couldn't get her off my mind. And till this very day, I still can't.

There's a ton of things I don't know. I don't know how to cook, I don't know how to do a backflip (10% success rate), and apparently, I don't even troll properly...but I do know something for sure; I know I want to protect my new found treasure from anything that might harm her.

This could've happened in any medium. We could've met in some book store, coffee shop, or even a different site. It happened here, in hey-ai. So I feel it's worth to send my compliments to this site for this event to even occur.

actually we knew each other from my ex-gf and she wantet me to be here as a "normal" friend. Then we became a couple after my ex-gf turned into my ex-gf
But after a year i found out she has other guys,too, (though it was "only" chatting etc). But in the end we broke up because the other guy managed to "charm her away" from me by sweet-talking and all that sh*t...LOL. And besides that i can`t love somebody to whom i`am not the only one. So she turned into my next ex-gf

What you can learn from here!

Be careful getting it on with somebody you`ve learned on online-sites, because there will always be a next one trying to charm your partner.
I hope my english doesn`t suck too much

Well, what brings me to this site, it is because I had tough times with my Asian ex gfs. And during that time, I was so sad and down due to those ex gfs who hurt me so much, that one of them even cheated me that she had sex with her ex bf when she was with me. I was like OMG! How could you do that to me?! And It was not the first time, she did that for like 4 times and I kept on forgave her...I was so stupid and afraid of losing her in the relationship.

However, this kind of thought was kinda silly and what woke me up, was that last time; I used to have American Caucasian gf, and she treated me so different than those Asian ex gfs. And I love her so much, although she doesn't possess the nice body like others Asian ex gfs that I was used to be with and also not that rich compare from those Asian ex gfs. But, what attracts me and make me unforgettable is that the way she shows me her love was so real and I was so touched. But the love between us had came to an end due to long distance, but this woke me up and I decide to pursue Caucasian girls rather than Asian girls. It is because they at least don't cheat me and hurt me like them.

So, first time I tried to log on the ACT and I couldn't find anyone that I interested with, people at there mostly trolling around and I was like OMG! I feel hard to find the one that I loved from there, sorry if I offend anyone...but seriously, it was hard for me at there compare with this site.

I have to thank Jo, because she introduced me to come to this site, at first when I came to this site, I was like What The Hell! Are you kidding me? You want me to fill all the information for my profile and I was like so frustrated and everyday I have to reply so much messages. However, I felt something different from here, is that I feel the people at here are friendly and curiosity to make friends from different countries, ethnicity and backgrounds. I still remember the first time, when I went to cam chat, the people at there are friendly and gave me warm smile, which it warmed my heart and felt comfortable to log on this site often.

And sooner, I understand what is the purpose of filling those information for my profile, it makes me to be confidence of who I am and present myself to the Caucasian women at here. And because of that, I have much connections and I am so happy that I found my gf from here.

First time, when I meet her; we used to message each other at Hey-Ai and we always made joke, because I saw her post that she said "I won't bite, so talk to me." And because of that post, we made the Twilight Joke and without realizing this vampire joke or so called "Twilight joke" made us fall in love with each other.

We meet each other every day and we have been together over 1 month which going to be 2 months soon. I love her so much that I would willing to argue and debate with my mom, I know she is protective and maybe a little racism in her mind; but I am willing to fight for our love, every day I try convince my mom that not all Caucasian women are that bad, past is past, and I know there are plenty good Caucasian women in this world, you can't judge someone just because of the past. Till now, every day I fight for this love and every day our love getting stronger, although we are not together and not be with each other (I mean physically) but every day I see her at the video call, it made me so happy and I would forget the past and love her every single beat from my heart.

Sometimes I told her, please don't give up because I know my mom, she tries to jeopardize our relationship and I wanna prove her of my statement; and of course, I told my current gf that right now, you represent Caucasian women to tell those racist people that you all aren't bad and prove them that they are wrong. And she agrees, and this make me so happy and same goes to me; I wanna prove her mom that Asian men do love them and also would not harm her. (Her mom is a bit worried that Asian Men would harm her) Come on, if I love her so much, would I dare to harm her?!

I love her so much and I am touched because all the things she did it to me, it is remarkable and she even spent her effort in writing the Chinese characters and sent a letter to my parents about telling them that she treats this relationship seriously which makes me so in love, and I never see someone did that to me.

I just wanna say "Ekaterina Esina, I love you from the bottom of my heart! I wanna be with you and soon we will! Let's fight for our love! Jet'aime(French) and Ia Tebia Liubliu(Russian)."

So here is our story

Well, one day I was bored and decided to get on cam chat on Hey-ai. I logged in and I got a PM this girl that I don't even know. Next thing I know, we chatted for five hours that day. The next day, we chatted for another 5-6 hours and this process continues even to this day. Immediately, I felt a strong connection with this girl. We have a lot of things in common including what we like, our interests, and our view of the world. I've never had such a strong connection with anybody before including my family and close friends. After couple days of chatting, I realized that I'm in love with her and I've never been in love with anybody until I met her. Everyday after work, the one thing that I look forward to is chatting with her online. In fact, during the weekend, we would chat for 7-9 hours. Instead of going out to clubbing during the weekend, I stayed indoor to chat with her. I didnt care about any other women. The only woman that I want to flirt with is her and only her. A month later, I traveled to visit her and I was scared that she would not like me in real life despite the fact that we've been skyping for a month. We were together for a week and it was the best week ever. I was so happy with her and I've never felt that happy before in my life. Unfortunately, it was only a week. I had to fly back but we are still together and still strong.

janus936






Well first of all i have to say, i had never thought that you can really meet and fall in love online. If somebody had told me a few months ago that this would happen to me i would have laughed at the person sooo hard..

Anyway, i signed up on hey-ai just for fun (*sorry*) and right on the first day i thought i would send this guy a message because he looked so bored on cam in the chat room ( eherm..and he looked pretty cute too) and soon we switched to messengers where we spent hours talking everyday and we still do.
I thought it was too good to be true because the chemistry was awesome and he can make me smile all the time.
So i noticed pretty fast i had strong feelings for him. My Exs cheated on me so i wasnt sure if i can trust him but i decided to follow my heart and turned out it was the right decision:) He really is the best man a woman can ask for, and he even does the dishes!!!
And he is actually the first man i've ever told that i love him! And i'm 26!
A few weeks later he booked a flight and we spent a really nice week together. I was nervous like a little girl when i picked him up at the airport, i sure hope he didn't notice^^ I used to be a picky princess and he made my knees feel like pudding and even though i know he loves me i sometimes wonder how i could be so lucky to have a man like him. I really enjoyed every single second and i cant wait to see him again. He gave me both the best day (his arrival) and the most horrible day ( when he left) i've had in a very long time, and it took him a week only...and if somebody gave me a penny for every time i think of him,i would be a billionaire already

imyourprincess

Let's not say couple, per se. But check us out:



Both painfully tired XD.