Guys, have you attracted girls not into Asians?

Guys, have you attracted white(or any other race) girls who originally not into Asian guys?

I would say I met most girls from friends introduction, parties I've been invited, classes I've attended, and business trips. Some I find them in public places like the library or in a tennis club(I'm into tennis). A small minority would be off the internet as I'm not much into or good at finding women online.

When I met women and some I had relations with them, some will confess to me or to my friends that they don't usually find Asian men attractive but they find me attractive and would take things further with me which I don't need to get into too much details.

Most people tend to go for or date people of their own race as I know and seen from experience but somehow I'm able to break the race barrier to attract girls of other races. I was wondering have any guys here done that and what is your experiences?

I just realize this type of question can be asked for girls as well like have you attracted Asian guys who don't usually find non-Asian girls attractive?

Jake wrote:

Guys, have you attracted white(or any other race) girls who originally not into Asian guys?

I would say I met most girls from friends introduction, parties I've been invited, classes I've attended, and business trips. Some I find them in public places like the library or in a tennis club(I'm into tennis). A small minority would be off the internet as I'm not much into or good at finding women online.

When I met women and some I had relations with them, some will confess to me or to my friends that they don't usually find Asian men attractive but they find me attractive and would take things further with me which I don't need to get into too much details.

Most people tend to go for or date people of their own race as I know and seen from experience but somehow I'm able to break the race barrier to attract girls of other races. I was wondering have any guys here done that and what is your experiences?

What's up Jake! Honestly, I haven't heard of too many Asians guys having much success on mainstream dating sites online. I think more often than not, those things are rigged for failure. I had a couple of female friends who were members on match.com and my god they were picky as hell, and they were getting tons of messages from all kinds of dudes, and some even seemed real nice and thoughtful. Eventually, both left the site pretty unfulfilled in their desire to find their "perfect" matches (they did go on a few dates). Neither one answered any Asians either, and there were more than a few.

But anyway, yeah a lot of girls I've dated have never been with other Asians. Most of the time it came about because we were running with the same crowds, that sort of thing. There have been a couple of times where I started something with a girl after having been friends for a while, and later admitting that they weren't really that into me at first. hah, I like to think that they meant because I'm Asian, not because of my dashing good looks

Rather, I'm seeing a pattern of girl types who are generally more into me than others: Emo/Indie chicks, stoners, and Jews

@GranitePail Dating sites does suck and it tends to have much lower quality women listed. The attractive women with good personalities tend not to list themselves in dating sites as I think they would feel it's degrading to find men online that way and they don't need to as well. They can find men in real life where ever they go.

I don't usually like to find women online but if I do, I go to hobbies related sites instead of focusing on dating sites like for me to name a few: tennis, language exchange, and certain travel sites.

Going with the same crowds as you said helps much more to meet women for sure. About the other groups as you stated, I might get into that later. Alright gotta go for now.

Hey,
I've tried to meet Asian guys through online dating but it didn't go very far. I had a couple dates but there was no chemistry.
I thought it would be easier to meet Asian guys online since they are mostly really shy when it comes to girls and I had two jobs plus school at the time.
I didn't have any time to socialize or meet guys unless they were at my work and even then dating in the work place can get awkward. (my school is online too so no boys to meet there!)
It's been an uphill battle for me, but I need to get out more
I find if I do meet guys at work, like customers (I work in a restaurant) they are not looking at me as a potential date because I am their server. Most hot Asian men I've met at work have been on a business lunch of some sort and don't seem to notice I'm even there.

Yes plenty but less so now that I'm finished with College.

@EricRocks
Oh yes the college girls. Quite a number of them are willing to experiment things with Asian guys as I had some myself and still can get them.

I would say the other girls who replied here that can't find Asian guys is go for hobbies they tend to like like online gaming in cyber cafes, certain individual sports like tennis and badminton, animes, gambling in casinos and horse racing, trade shows(as many Asians guys are great businessmen), fishing, shooting ranges,... there are many others but I can't think of it now.

GranitePail wrote:

Rather, I'm seeing a pattern of girl types who are generally more into me than others: Emo/Indie chicks, stoners, and Jews

Well I said I'll get back to these groups. I seem to attract these types as well as other weird girls as well for some reason in Toronto and they know sometimes I have 420 when attracts them to me more.

I think I better work on finding other groups of people to hang out with to attract more normal girls.

Edit the last part out as I realise it might get off topic of this thread.

I haven't been successful at any guys I tried to flirt and ask them out. I rather they ask me out. There was this one hot Chinese guy I tried to get his attention at a party but it was a utter failure as he said it outright he prefers Chinese girls but he was nice to say I look great and would like to have me as a friend. I lost touch with him shortly after that.

Just brain wash them. What's so hard about it? I jacked a beautiful tall and blonde Estonian girl from a Finnish guy like a blink of an eye. If she's still not into you, move on to her sister, cousin, friends, etc etc. If this is too difficult, go find one of your kind.