Do asian men date single mother?

I'm a new single mom and very recently started chatting with a Chinese American guy. Its literally only been 2 days but I do not know how to tell him i have kids. I want to date him but without him being in my children life. Like I don't expect him to be a stepfather or anything to them. Basically I'd like to pursue the relationship, but I feel based on the difference in culture, i can't.

hey, I do not represent all the asian guys out there, but if he really likes you then i don't think he would mind,
but in terms of culture differences, some guys may be more conserved than others,
I see that you've only started seeing him for two days, so take it easy, but what i do know that is everyone would like to know the truth,
so it's better if you tell him that when this relationship becomes a serious one,
coz no one want to be kept in the dark right?
trust is an important factor in most relationships this is what i believe...

I just texted him and told him. I didnt intend to keep him in the dark especially since we don't have a relationship yet. But yeah he texted back and omg its such a relief. He somewhat believes he's to immature for me but we can take things slow and get a feel of forming a relation.

I think most men want their own children……If I were 50, I wouldn't mind being a single mom。

But I'm 29 now, and I want to have my own children，So I'm not going to date a single mom！

Some do and others like all skin colours
Also u cant relay on culture that would go for baby moms.

Some do, but I am of the opinion that single fathers pair up better with single mothers for the reason that there is a mutual understanding.

This way everyone is on the same page in terms of experience and expectations.

Some guys who have never sired any offspring may not appreciate or understand that the child of the single mother will always be the number one priority.

I'm also on some pages in Germany. the unanimous tone is that asian men do not like to date single mothers or they are not considered for a relationship.
i think you always have to consider the age of your partner. from a certain age, people simply have a prehistory and are not without "attachment" to have.

a woman with children only shows that she has achieved something in her life so far ... and is now single again for various reasons.
In the distant past, a woman proved her worth with her fertility, today she's being sorted out because of that ... a crazy world.

Ultimately, of course, everyone has their own opinion and that's a good thing. but a change of perspective should be considered. personally i think it is wrong to weed out a person just because the general conditions are not right. that would be like sorting out all people with a certain hair color or figure type WITHOUT actually getting to know the person

if its your typical interaction, a question about yourself would have been presented early in the conversation. those are good opportunities to drop bombs like having kids.

But I mean everyone is raised differently and I assume with different morals. Personally I’ve never met or heard of an Asian man dating a single mother. So I just assumed that they weren’t interested. But I do understand that all men rather have their own children than to raise someone else’s. I’m ok with that, which is why I’d rather not really introduce my kids to anyone I’m talking to especially if it’s not serious.

KangNi81 wrote: I'm also on some pages in Germany. the unanimous tone is that asian men do not like to date single mothers or they are not considered for a relationship.
i think you always have to consider the age of your partner. from a certain age, people simply have a prehistory and are not without "attachment" to have.

a woman with children only shows that she has achieved something in her life so far ... and is now single again for various reasons.
In the distant past, a woman proved her worth with her fertility, today she's being sorted out because of that ... a crazy world.

Ultimately, of course, everyone has their own opinion and that's a good thing. but a change of perspective should be considered. personally i think it is wrong to weed out a person just because the general conditions are not right. that would be like sorting out all people with a certain hair color or figure type WITHOUT actually getting to know the person

Maybe you meant it differently, but the sole fact of having birthed a child is not a huge achievement.

Btw. I don't think that in the past people were more willing to date single mothers, either. Maybe because of lack of choice living in a village in a non globalized world, but I don't think due to seeing them as more "fertile ".