Do you want kids? If so, how many and what gender?

^ “family is everything” doesn’t work for everyone,even family will take advantage from each other.and they say siblings count on each other.

"Family is everything" works well for me and my paternal family's side. Shared values are usually passed by example, and my sister have a very deep connection and bond as a result. I intend to pass those values on, and that requires finding people who also shares the same values and beliefs.

From your response, it sounds like you have a different experience. That's fine, but that's very much a "you" and "your family" problem.

Well it’s not just me,also from what I’ve seen,from 2 different part of the world. People can be different after all.

Life is diverse. Anything that can happen usually does. I've seen both strong and broken families during my travels to countries in North America, Eastern Europe, and Asia. It also exists very close to home. Notice I mentioned only my paternal family in my previous comment.

It's good to be aware of as many angle of circumstances as possible. In the end you have to decide what it is that you wish to focus on because that does have a conscious, and perhaps even an unconscious, effect on how you approach and view life.

I choose to follow the side that I feel the most happy, warm, and comfortable with, and that's something I'd like to pass down to the next generation.

I wouldn’t say you are wrong,and I understand, I focus on different side because I don’t want to be disappointed. And this is not saying I don’t want kid, just 1 or 2 to live independently and find some friends when they need help. Family is not about blood,is about who has your back when you need it.

Of course you can't say I'm wrong.

This is a subjective matter, after all. We all come from different walks of life, and we choose what we do based on our experiences, but it's good that we both have an understanding about how this is just the way life works and respect that. I do want to say that I'm happy to hear that people in this community feels optimistic about having kids at some point in their life. I think that's wonderful.

Anyone else will have 533 children ?

Having kids is a huge responsibility. There is not enough food in the world, morals are hard to find. 7 billions is too much for mother Earth. I would rather adopt, give a home to a child that is left alone.

Thinking well I have not found the right person, my perspective of having 2 children has changed .. In the world there are many abandoned childrens ..
The best option would be to adopt. The future is uncertain and unpredictable because of our decisions, actions.. For now it is not safe to take a child into an worldwide overpopulated, competitive, gender inequality, discrimination in different fields ( Socio-cultural, racial, ethnic, nationality, sexual, religious), wars, biological viruses, pollution~ climate change, economic crisis from food and health , gender inequality, discrimination, biological viruses, pollution and climate change, in some aspects complicated..

There are many children lacking love, so I would like to adopt children, I don't care about the gender