Would you (an Asian man) date a single mother?

Juno wrote: I did, if I could go back in time, I wouldn't.

So sorry to hear you had a bad experience Juno ):

Op you seem to have an okay attitude, if you ain't trying to play us and is putting up a front.

If a woman, isn't ugly, fat, and thot, you will not have trouble finding a man.

As long as you don't trying to guilt trip men over your single motherhood (which you are seemingly not doing), and that you actually treat your man like a king and not neglect him as just a meal ticket for your son.

I just hope you will buy me some Infinity models after you get a nice guy from here as a present for me.

Did you listen to the teachings of Teacher Vincent?

Personally, i would 100%. You have a few things going for you, you have looks and a stable job, and you are relatively young. Those are going to be advantageous for you in the dating scene. Having a child is not as much a disadvantage as you think it is, especially if you are willing to have another child with the guy you like. Anyway, hope things work out for you.

Let's face it, no one is perfect. And least of all, me.

There is no perfect partner to find. The secret to a good relationship is to accept your partner with all of their pros and cons. You seem to be a good looking woman with a nice education and by the way you are communicating here, you also seem to have your shit together, personalitywise. So that is definitely a lot of pros. If you can accept the fact that I see your kid from another man as something in the "cons" category of you, I would date you (or any other single mother like you with only one child so far).

Please understand fully what that really means. Viewing your current child as "cons" also means that I will mostly only be willing to do stuff for that kid in case of emergencies, e.g. hospital visit. Though I guess I would also be willing to help with homework or teach him boxing, since I actually like teaching kids lmao. I expect the single mom and / or the real dad to do everything else, including paying for all the bills, including vacations and college education. If your kid is going to miss soccer practice because neither of his biological parents have the time to drive him but I am watching a nice movie on the couch? Yeah, I am going to keep watching that movie - unless of course my child also needs to go to soccer practice. I also expect the single mother to have a child with me and pay as much for our child as she does for her other child. E.g. no "I am already paying for the college education of this child, you pay for the other child" nonsense. If half of what you are willing to invest in children is not enough for your kid to go to college? Not my problem, then that kid does not go to college. I will insist on our kid getting the other half and I will add something so that our kid will be able to go to college. To sum it up, I would treat the kid the single mother already has as a neighbor's kid or my kid's best friend. So I will be okay with being a semi father figure for that kid, though there are definitely lines to be drawn in the sand. If she can accept that, I guess I will be willing to date a single mother.

Though I kind of doubt that a single mother will accept this.

Or, and I am actually curious here, would you?

try some of those single parent apps and Facebook groups. Even some shady meetup or eventbrite gatherings can also work.

I think single parents best options are other single parents. Somebody without children definitely will hesitate, that goes for both genders.

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Yes. I've done it before. I've no complaints. I dated her when she had 1 child. Now she has 4 children with all different fathers... I DODGED A BULLET! *Phew! Maybe I should have added a child to her list too lmao! J/K J/K. I'm not that reckless... Obviously, I'm not stupid and I won't let my 1 bad experience with the "ONE" single mom white girl with 4 different children from 4 different fathers ruin my view on single mothers. It all depends on the circumstances. I fully understand that single mothers have a duty to their child/children, but if a single mother is trying to date seriously "into marriage" and cannot do the most basic task such as finding a babysitter to babysit her child on the first date then I would say I cannot take her seriously as well. I get it, the child is an extension of her, but I'm not here to date her whole family lmao! This simply just shows that she doesn't have any class or etiquette and we are not on the same level which means that's a complete deal breaker for me. If she's 100% what she says she is then she can prove it with actions and not words, but the moment she gets caught lacking in realness is the moment I will cut her. Sorry, your boy's a cut-throat killer not because he wanted to be but because he had to be. I've let women in the past waste too much of my time and resources and I'm glad I did because I became a real G in the end and learned how to move. Either be with it or don't be about it at all. No, in-betweens because that will get you crossed out real quick with me homie. I'm playing for keeps. You're either hoing around or you want a relationship, let's be real. Ain't no real ones out here trying wife up a ho lol. Where my thugs at? lol. You either down with the gang gang or you ain't. Hope this answers your question.

bbNote wrote: Yes. I've done it before. I've no complaints. I dated her when she had 1 child. Now she has 4 children with all different fathers... I DODGED A BULLET! *Phew! Maybe I should have added a child to her list too lmao! J/K J/K. I'm not that reckless... Obviously, I'm not stupid and I won't let my 1 bad experience with the "ONE" single mom white girl with 4 different children from 4 different fathers ruin my view on single mothers. It all depends on the circumstances. I fully understand that single mothers have a duty to their child/children, but if a single mother is trying to date seriously "into marriage" and cannot do the most basic task such as finding a babysitter to babysit her child on the first date then I would say I cannot take her seriously as well. I get it, the child is an extension of her, but I'm not here to date her whole family lmao! This simply just shows that she doesn't have any class or etiquette and we are not on the same level which means that's a complete deal breaker for me. If she's 100% what she says she is then she can prove it with actions and not words, but the moment she gets caught lacking in realness is the moment I will cut her. Sorry, your boy's a cut-throat killer not because he wanted to be but because he had to be. I've let women in the past waste too much of my time and resources and I'm glad I did because I became a real G in the end and learned how to move. Either be with it or don't be about it at all. No, in-betweens because that will get you crossed out real quick with me homie. I'm playing for keeps. You're either hoing around or you want a relationship, let's be real. Ain't no real ones out here trying wife up a ho lol. Where my thugs at? lol. You either down with the gang gang or you ain't. Hope this answers your question.

She must have been hot.

Adil_Mehmut wrote: Op you seem to have an okay attitude, if you ain't trying to play us and is putting up a front.

If a woman, isn't ugly, fat, and thot, you will not have trouble finding a man.

As long as you don't trying to guilt trip men over your single motherhood (which you are seemingly not doing), and that you actually treat your man like a king and not neglect him as just a meal ticket for your son.

I just hope you will buy me some Infinity models after you get a nice guy from here as a present for me.

Did you listen to the teachings of Teacher Vincent?

where the troll police at? lmao