Have I been wrong about this?

Greeting Ladies and Gentlemen;

Its been a while since I posted in forum (last time was 2 years ago). Anyways long story short. I just have this question that has been stuck in my head for weeks. let's say I have this girl whom I am really into (we were just friends) but every time I asked her for company because I really needed to. she refused without a second thought and always came up with some excuse. (She accepts certain people's request). Does that mean that she doesn't like me/care about me? Is it normal for a girl to reject anyone's request even its their boyfriend/husband or the person that they have feeling with? Because if I liked somebody whenever she needs my company. I'd always make sure I'm there for her. Even if I couldn't at the moment; I would still make it up for her later on. Does it work on both way? would girls often say no to the person they like? or she just doesn't feel the same way I feel for her? I don't have much experience on this; I am not able to read opposite gender's mind but Any opinions /advice are welcome and grateful. On top of that I wish everyone a better new year 2022.

Kaykanon wrote: Greeting Ladies and Gentlemen;

Its been a while since I posted in forum (last time was 2 years ago). Anyways long story short. I just have this question that has been stuck in my head for weeks. let's say I have this girl whom I am really into (we were just friends) but every time I asked her for company because I really needed to. she refused without a second thought and always came up with some excuse. (She accepts certain people's request). Does that mean that she doesn't like me/care about me? Is it normal for a girl to reject anyone's request even its their boyfriend/husband or the person that they have feeling with? Because if I liked somebody whenever she needs my company. I'd always make sure I'm there for her. Even if I couldn't at the moment; I would still make it up for her later on. Does it work on both way? would girls often say no to the person they like? or she just doesn't feel the same way I feel for her? I don't have much experience on this; I am not able to read opposite gender's mind but Any opinions /advice are welcome and grateful. On top of that I wish everyone a better new year 2022.

She's not into you homes

I once heard 'take mixed signals as a no'. You can't expect yourself from other people either. Just because you are willing to do something, doesn't mean she is. Sure it's an unfair expectation but more importantly it will just make you miserable.

I've had times when I'm really too busy for anyone and some exceptions occurred so it probably looked bad. Definitely not worth hanging around for unless she otherwise expressed interest.

If girls want you they’ll come up with reasons for your company.
When they have excuses to not see you ?simply move on.
don’t devalued yourself and give your time to people that are not going to appreciate😛

"Does that mean that she doesn't like me/care about me?" You already answered this question for yourself. She is NOT THAT INTO you.

"Is it normal for a girl to reject anyone's request even its their boyfriend/husband or the person that they have feeling with?" Girls are humans just as men. We aren't THAT different, after all. It's not normal for the average Joe and Jane, unless she is not THAT INTO you.

"Does it work on both way?" Yes, yes and of course! Love, friendship and any relationship out there goes both ways.

"would girls often say no to the person they like? or she just doesn't feel the same way I feel for her?"

I think you already know all these answers by yourself but it's rather your own insecurity and maybe you just don't want to give her up because you are into her. Seduction is always a game of tension and releasing tention, but if there is only tension, she/he is just not THAT into you.
People need to learn when the cause of courting a girl/guy is just lost time and movie on.

if she's avoiding you, or saying no without hesitation, that's a pretty clear answer to me. Don't have to be a girl to see that.

I don't think at this point I need to repeat what everyone else has said. I don't think you're a blind person, so I suspect that you've invested (whether energy or financially) into this and you're now feeling stuck because of the sunken cost from past efforts. Drop this chick immediately and move on to other relevant things in your life.

In the future it'll do you well if you make clear your intentions early on, never beat around the bush. They'll either give the opportunity a shot and reciprocate, or you'll know to keep on going. Unless they've got qualities and values that you respect and can honestly want to keep them around in a purely platonic friendship. Be honest with yourself though, knowing yourself is the first step into doing any thing right in life.