Deadass serious question. Where do you guys go look for love?

Tinder's no good unless you look like Thor. Even the white blokes have a tough time on there. I guess here might work again, but I guess you have your reservations from the past and meeting in real life is nicer in a way.

I think a lot depends on your networks. Easier to meet a friend of a friend at a party etc. as less walls put up. Make friends with girls too, as they may hook you up. Failing that, join social groups you're interested in or creep the local Chinatown more often. Eating some good food is a great excuse to go anyway. Clubs...possible, but require a ton of time, money and effort. Not really worked much for myself but I'm fairly uggo.

I guess one thing is get good at eye contact. There's little clues in there which can help determine whether she likes or dislikes you before you even full on approach. Probs best tip here is check how long she looks at you for...is it longer than normal/comfortable? Is it more than just the once? Though check you've not got shit on your face first, and don't give out a serious serial killer stare without a smile.

I think Asian guys have a rough road ahead being the purveyors of 'Chinese Virus' n all. Good luck!

Sammo wrote: Tinder's no good unless you look like Thor. Even the white blokes have a tough time on there. I guess here might work again, but I guess you have your reservations from the past and meeting in real life is nicer in a way.

I think a lot depends on your networks. Easier to meet a friend of a friend at a party etc. as less walls put up. Make friends with girls too, as they may hook you up. Failing that, join social groups you're interested in or creep the local Chinatown more often. Eating some good food is a great excuse to go anyway. Clubs...possible, but require a ton of time, money and effort. Not really worked much for myself but I'm fairly uggo.

I guess one thing is get good at eye contact. There's little clues in there which can help determine whether she likes or dislikes you before you even full on approach. Probs best tip here is check how long she looks at you for...is it longer than normal/comfortable? Is it more than just the once? Though check you've not got shit on your face first, and don't give out a serious serial killer stare without a smile.


I think Asian guys have a rough road ahead being the purveyors of 'Chinese Virus' n all. Good luck!

Women are willing to have casual sex but if you want a relationship I wish you luck at least online. Most women casual sex during their 20's while waiting for the 6 figure man. Some women are willing to settle. High earning women will wait it out too but they are willing to settle for lower earning man. But women who make more are far more likely to divorce. If you want to look for marriage get out of the big cities and looking for smaller cities. Forget cities like LA, Toronto, NYC, etc because they are mostly feminist/liberal women and they are more likely to divorce.

Rainman wrote: But women who make more are far more likely to divorce. If you want to look for marriage get out of the big cities and looking for smaller cities. Forget cities like LA, Toronto, NYC, etc because they are mostly feminist/liberal women and they are more likely to divorce.

Didn't you wonder that these women, having more education, being financially independent and having had more than one man in their life, know exactly what they want and, even more, what they don't want? A woman does not marry to divorce, because she does not marry for that. What happens is that these women do not have to put up with macho behaviors, or bow their heads to the man for the simple fact of being a woman. In short, they are not willing to put up with bullshit just for the sake of being with a man.

Ansuca wrote:

Rainman wrote: But women who make more are far more likely to divorce. If you want to look for marriage get out of the big cities and looking for smaller cities. Forget cities like LA, Toronto, NYC, etc because they are mostly feminist/liberal women and they are more likely to divorce.

Didn't you wonder that these women, having more education, being financially independent and having had more than one man in their life, know exactly what they want and, even more, what they don't want? A woman does not marry to divorce, because she does not marry for that. What happens is that these women do not have to put up with macho behaviors, or bow their heads to the man for the simple fact of being a woman. In short, they are not willing to put up with bullshit just for the sake of being with a man.

YOu're bitter because your ex cheated on you and you're still single after 2 years on here. That isn't the reason why most women divorce it is because they aren't feeling it anymore.

Rainman wrote:
YOu're bitter because your ex cheated on you and you're still single after 2 years on here. That isn't the reason why most women divorce it is because they aren't feeling it anymore.

So first of all ... Huh rude much? was it truely necessary? so many questions .... so little answers ...

As for what ana said ... its the truth?
If a woman (or a man for that matter) can live beautifully on their own, be successful, independant and happy ... why would they put up with anyone who doesnt contribute to their happiness or bring something to the table ?

If im already happy with my own life and satisfied - why would i stay/date someone who makes me stressed, makes me sad, ect.

What reason would I have to put up with it when im happier on my own?

It has nothing to do with being more liberal, it has everything to do with the fact that those man/woman already have fulfilling lives and most wont put up with bs and they will drop you on your ass and go look for someone who is at their level because they know their worth and what they desire in life.

- so yes, i could somewhat understand that divorce rate could be higher in that demographic however like ana said ... woman dont marry with the idea of divorce ... especially if you earn more than enough to do great on your own.

Now that i pretty much detailed what i believe ana ment (to the best of my understanding), can we just be nice and listen to the amazing song Strinhmn posted? Cuz im really not feeling your bitterness

No wonder i gotten divorce 4 time, rainman is right, these concrete jungle animal are to wild and cant be tame, i guess rainman and i arent real men enough to tame these out of control woman.

Rainman wrote:

Ansuca wrote:

Rainman wrote: But women who make more are far more likely to divorce. If you want to look for marriage get out of the big cities and looking for smaller cities. Forget cities like LA, Toronto, NYC, etc because they are mostly feminist/liberal women and they are more likely to divorce.

Didn't you wonder that these women, having more education, being financially independent and having had more than one man in their life, know exactly what they want and, even more, what they don't want? A woman does not marry to divorce, because she does not marry for that. What happens is that these women do not have to put up with macho behaviors, or bow their heads to the man for the simple fact of being a woman. In short, they are not willing to put up with bullshit just for the sake of being with a man.

YOu're bitter because your ex cheated on you and you're still single after 2 years on here. That isn't the reason why most women divorce it is because they aren't feeling it anymore.

Who~ is the girl I see screwing you like herpes… 🎶 🎶

oDang wrote: No wonder i gotten divorce 4 time, rainman is right, these concrete jungle animal are to wild and cant be tame, i guess rainman and i arent real men enough to tame these out of control woman.

Read the book Men are From Mars Women from Venus. It is a great book, it helped save marriages for millions of couples. Read the book No more mr nice guy. And watch Elliot Hulse's videos on youtube.

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Do no have sex before marriage, do not cohabitate before marriage and have the traditional gender roles. If she doesn't like that kick her to the curb. Most women are feminists, avoid them like a plaque. The whole equality nonsense created problems in the first place.