Long distance

LDR's are great if both parties are on the same page. Let them spend some time with you, and they go back to wherever the f*** they're from. You get to go back to your life and get to do what you want to do. No hassle, no bs, straight to voicemail and you can get back to them 2 days later because you're dealing with work and school. Also...from your profile you're in Germany...it actually seems like there are plenty of good looking Asian dudes living in Germany that seem semi-normal and can string together a couple of words to pass off as a conversation. I don't think you need to go after LDR's. But if you think you do... seriously just take a chance on someone when you feel a great connection---even if you're unsure. The worst that is going to happen is some money spent on airfare, some money spent on hotel, some money spent on cab, some money spent on food. But there's a possibility you'll meet the love of your life and everything will be puppies and rainbows and sh**. Okay maybe the worst that can happen would be you wake up in a bathtub full of ice with a kidney and lung missing and sold as a sex-slave and then they threaten your family and all your possessions are gone and you get knocked up and you have to put up the twins for adoption...but that's a VERY slim chance!!...and more than likely you'll just end up meeting an awkward ass-Asian dude that'll warm up to you by meeting number 3 and you guys will get along great. Plus you're kinda cute. This can't be too hard. Just do it =)

Where should I go for vacation?

Hahahaha sorry. I'm a statician.
I'd say we rank people qualitatively (with various dubious criteria).
Some people can try to do it quantitatively.

One should note that although ldr is costly, in some situations the payoff can be positive.
In general, it's negative, otherwise the distribution of the nationalities of the residents of your country would be almost uniform.

So long distance is really hard, i understand for most people theres ALOT of trust issues, on top oof that if you guys did get serious, you arent physically there for one another, but that doesnt mean its impossible for it to work, i mean some pros to long distance is when u finally meet in person you can hug the shit out of that person and finally get to hold them lmao but on a real note, hypothetically speaking, lets say you (in general) believe in the whole finding a soulmate idea, there are 7.5 BILLION people on this earth, again, 7.5 BILLION people, most people choose to date people within their city for understandable reasons but do you really think that that person ( your soulmate) is 20 miles from where you live? No i dont think so, so as scary as long distance is i think its worth it, my advice would be to take it very slow if your afraid to show your feelings

I have done long distance before.. Was with a guy once here in Germany that lived 6 hours away..Sadly it did not last because after I visited him, he was not interested in equal give and take, me having spent over 300 on train tickets to go visit him, was kind of a big blow, but thats okay..Not everyone can be as devoted or that invested..It was a learning experience..It does cost a lot of money at times, but if both are invested and devoted, i feel it could work out..With that guy, I am kind of glad things didnt work out ...He was seeing someone else at the same time and got married a month later..Trusting someone is telling the truth about things..Can also be hard..I did not know he was seeing other people..So..It was difficult finding that out..But I was better off in the long run when things ended between us..Just kind of wish the guy was honest and sparing me the money i spent to go see him..He was purely just wanting the physical and I doubt the other woman knew about me..

I think if a relationship starts off as long distance and then becomes local there is a lot of opportunity. It forces you to form a bond with someone that is beyond physical and requires you to be friends first which in turn leads to having a stronger bond in my opinion. Too often, I think people want to focus only on the physical aspect of a relationship. There is so much more to a relationship than that.

If two people are looking for the same thing then yes. It’s rare but it can work if only both are devoted and have discipline.

Online dating is 50/50 possible. You can get to know each other in that way too but you have to be lucky about a potential partner or get to know each other through videos, meet-ups and even short-term living together