false promises

I know right o.o!? but apparently to him I to sof hearted and he thought of me as like a child with so much innoncence. but that's the past. I care about my future now.^^ and right now Im much appreaciated by my boyfriend!^^

th3f4llen wrote: Were you ever promised something from your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband and then find out it was just a hollow promise? How did you feel? What did you say to your partner? How did you partner feel and what did they say?

Yeah, it happens. Life is life, hollow promises are a part of it, whether your partner makes them, or you do. The real question is "what kind of promise, involving what?". Some aren't worth arguing over, others are. The context matters too.

well white guys well say anything to make a girl feel sorry for them and a reason to cheat X(...thats why I will never see white guys the same. never he ruined that! but sigh -.- Im over that now and very happy^^ whats ironic about him he was the guy that hooked up relationships and knew alot about relationships and knows how to fix him. girls told me oh Tiffy your so lucky! No Im not you havnt seen the real side of the guy he's a liar and a monster! well he's a faded memory now so yea.

Selaka Graveraven wrote: well white guys well say anything to make a girl feel sorry for them and a reason to cheat X(...thats why I will never see white guys the same. never he ruined that! but sigh -.-

Really? Just white guys? Really?

Passion and love makes men promise many things....

Empty promises .I felt disappointed!
It happened with someone from the past. I told him not to make promises and commitment that he cannot keep. That he will let time flow without planning each moment, that he would take it optimistically and we would see what happens. He took it personal and felt offended. We agree to keep our word, not make promises. We make it clear that love is not a debate or emotional domain.

*Promises are made to be fulfilled, others to be broken.
*The obstacles & ups and downs to be overcome.
*Internal emotions and thoughts to be in balance, although sometimes they are unstable.
*The flexibility to be open and tolerant.
*Failures and defects to be someone better.
*Fickle expectations and futile words to be discarded.
*The virtues and strengths for better satisfaction and personal well-being.
*Experiences and knowledge to be wise.
*Learning and expressions to develop in our existence with an amplitude full of nuances.
*Life and the universe present to be understood in essence, to find our mission, far from the dogmatic.
*Love, joy, spirituality present unconditionally to be interconnected un fullness.
*Ephemeral pleasures and transient pain are present to be overcome and find our happiness.

I was victim of that and I was doing the same about 1 guy. I promised financial support in ldr, come one day and family too because I wanted to. I was getting fake promises and fake hopes esp. from mother for around a year or more that I must go right now to Germany to work because of also our bad relations, that I must to work there because I am lazy, that for sure I am gonna now etc But when I was getting positive responses, then 'no' because she doesn't like salary. I was in this whole situation like in hard, compulsive panic attacks.. Its so shortly written