Signs when a girl likes a guy (body language)

I dont want comments saying - She will tell you etc.. You will know etc..

I know if she really likes you she will approach you. But what about if you see a girl at a bar or club or at a restaurant.

What signs, show that she is interested in you in some way.

Oh you mean physical signs!

well.. ripping ur clothes off and having her way with you would probably be the best sign...but uhm... yeah cant do that in public.

so more subtle signs...

she leans in towards you when you are talking,

she tries to have some kind of physical contact..such as touching ur arm

she smiles when she is near you even if she is shy she will smile.

Honestly I really have no idea.. I'm pretty much just telling you what I have read. I have no idea of any of the signs I give off. I'm pretty oblivious to flirting signs from either gender.

no... with some people ( like me)..its best if the person just says how they feel.

When she's making eyecontact, leaning towards you. Smiling and laughing when you talk etc.

Though shy girls are very different, won't make much eyecontact.

From what I gather smiling is a good sign, but do you mean smiling at the person from across the room and staring or gazing at the person? or smiling when talking?

vkf wrote: Oh you mean physical signs!

well.. ripping ur clothes off and having her way with you would probably be the best sign...but uhm... yeah cant do that in public.

so more subtle signs...

she leans in towards you when you are talking,

she tries to have some kind of physical contact..such as touching ur arm

she smiles when she is near you even if she is shy she will smile.

Honestly I really have no idea.. I'm pretty much just telling you what I have read. I have no idea of any of the signs I give off. I'm pretty oblivious to flirting signs from either gender.

no... with some people ( like me)..its best if the person just says how they feel.

The problems is all these 'signs' such as leaning towards me, touching my arm/hand, smile, eye contacts, a lot of girls do that and I don't really believe they all like me, even a lot of them are really cute ^^

nouvelleere wrote:

vkf wrote: Oh you mean physical signs!

well.. ripping ur clothes off and having her way with you would probably be the best sign...but uhm... yeah cant do that in public.

so more subtle signs...

she leans in towards you when you are talking,

she tries to have some kind of physical contact..such as touching ur arm

she smiles when she is near you even if she is shy she will smile.

Honestly I really have no idea.. I'm pretty much just telling you what I have read. I have no idea of any of the signs I give off. I'm pretty oblivious to flirting signs from either gender.

no... with some people ( like me)..its best if the person just says how they feel.

The problems is all these 'signs' such as leaning towards me, touching my arm/hand, smile, eye contacts, a lot of girls do that and I don't really believe they all like me, even a lot of them are really cute ^^

Some girls smile all the time. Others are touchy people and touch about everyone they feel ok about. Like sympathetic people. Difficult to tell this way. When I think a problem through I frequently touch my neck or even cleavage and I do not notice it. Some people might find it sexy but its not ment that way. Better buy a good book on body language to avoid unwanted situations.

I guess there isnt really any positive signs?

ricky wrote: I guess there isnt really any positive signs?

Yes there are, but you should buy a book on that. At least I don´t pay attention to my body language when I like a guy lol Some things are going on without the person noticing it. Other girls just flirt with these and those gestures which I find a bit lame and never do. You can also not judge genuine interest or if that person is just playing a game. Sorry cannot help there.

thats ok, ast least got opinions from my posts.

*Hannah* wrote:

nouvelleere wrote:

vkf wrote: Oh you mean physical signs!

well.. ripping ur clothes off and having her way with you would probably be the best sign...but uhm... yeah cant do that in public.

so more subtle signs...

she leans in towards you when you are talking,

she tries to have some kind of physical contact..such as touching ur arm

she smiles when she is near you even if she is shy she will smile.

Honestly I really have no idea.. I'm pretty much just telling you what I have read. I have no idea of any of the signs I give off. I'm pretty oblivious to flirting signs from either gender.

no... with some people ( like me)..its best if the person just says how they feel.

The problems is all these 'signs' such as leaning towards me, touching my arm/hand, smile, eye contacts, a lot of girls do that and I don't really believe they all like me, even a lot of them are really cute ^^

Some girls smile all the time. Others are touchy people and touch about everyone they feel ok about. Like sympathetic people. Difficult to tell this way. When I think a problem through I frequently touch my neck or even cleavage and I do not notice it. Some people might find it sexy but its not ment that way. Better buy a good book on body language to avoid unwanted situations.

Well I did say that these were signs I read about... I have no clue what i do. and I have no clue when someone is giving me signs either.