When did you realize...

Really, when did you first realize that your "type" included...well the types of people on this site. And be HONEST!

OK for me, I followed a minor reality celeb back in 2005... who was half-Japanese(we're not going to talk about him...as we met and that was just a strange few years)
but I didn't actually realize it till I had saved pictures of my guy friends - and other guys - sleeping, and they were just about all Asian. Is that creepy? These "guys friends" liked me but I was taken at the time, so...

I was on a cruise 8 years ago. It was a 2 week cruise, and while I was there, I developed a huge crush on a staff member. Not sure where he was from, maybe Indonesia. His name was Agus and he was very handsome and gave me free sodas every day hehe =) After that trip I started noticing how attractive a lot of asian men are. And since Denmark is a very white country, I decided to try and chat online instead and meet people from different cultures

^and it was after reading that, the men on here, realised that the place to be is denmark.

greensheep wrote: ^and it was after reading that, the men on here, realised that the place to be is denmark.

Mate that’s just you. I’m innocent, don’t include me to this.
*hide my ticket to Denmark*

I have been influenced by Asian movies since I am little. That's a African American thing. *lol* At least with my Dads generation, I figured.
But honestly, my preference in men, generally, doesn't have much to do with being Asian. Since I remember, I always have been into rather androgynous men. In my 20's, I just figured, that Asian guys mostly fit in this category, in a Western point of view.
And no, I do think the whole KPop thing is too much for me. They are trimmed to be beautiful and not androgynous. It sometimes goes along, but I am thinking more of David Bowie (ok might be a bad example using a white guy lol). But thinking of an Asian man, I would say Gackt is a good example when I was younger. I mean, the whole JRock scene and Gothic scene was made for us.
Btw Androgynous traits can be represented in looks and behavior. I don't think it's about being not masculine or feminine enough, but the play of being ambiguous.

Lol you are all most welcome here! <3

Rentaloppa wrote: Mate that’s just you. I’m innocent, don’t include me to this.
*hide my ticket to Denmark*

hey ais first cruise meet? destination denmark. oil up your bodies and pack your tighty whities boys. we going sailing.

greensheep wrote:

Rentaloppa wrote: Mate that’s just you. I’m innocent, don’t include me to this.
*hide my ticket to Denmark*

hey ais first cruise meet? destination denmark. oil up your bodies and pack your tighty whities boys. we going sailing.

Aye captain

Sapphire wrote: Really, when did you first realize that your "type" included...well the types of people on this site. And be HONEST!

OK for me, I followed a minor reality celeb back in 2005... who was half-Japanese(we're not going to talk about him...as we met and that was just a strange few years)
but I didn't actually realize it till I had saved pictures of my guy friends - and other guys - sleeping, and they were just about all Asian. Is that creepy? These "guys friends" liked me but I was taken at the time, so...

There was this random White girl in our neighborhood one day back when I was still living in the Philippines, and I thought her White pasty skin and blonde hair was beautiful haha.

Back in grade school, there was this white girl in my class that said she'll marry me when we get older. Funny thing is she transferred to a different school the next year. The childhood sweetheart scenario wouldn't have worked out but it's always nice to reflect on childhood memories. Guess I'm out here trying to find closure.